"Plans are useless. Planning is everything" Dwight D Eisenhower

the act of planning is about anticipating scenerios and informing your intuition

I always run through what I'd do if someone with a gun burst through the door

that way, when you see a window, you can exploit it

Everytime I go into a different room or go anywhere

Every time

Or some similar event

that's a lack of feedback, tubby

I sometimes run through conversations I want to have used to work for me not so much now though

relationships help you supress that tendancy

I run through conversations too

I think I do it so I know what the expanded branches will be before I go down them

yeah, i do that alot

when i used to get nervous speaking in public, i found that helped calm me down

now, it's no sweat

Despite the amount of drills I do in my head I can still do pretty well under stress and can make up shit on the fly very well

i can talk impromptu for an hour on a subject i know to a room ful of admirals

Me too probably

Depends what the subject is

something i had to really work on though

when you get nervous, control your breathing

definately

and make sure they can hear you the FIRST time

On the subjects I'm really passionate about I could probably lecture for an hour or two on out of thin air

and make sure you are comfortable with how you are dressed and such

Actually amazes me what I figure out and come up with doing that things I didn't really think or know before but present themselves to me in the moment

ikr

I have no problem talking to random people or even large groups. I only get nervous when it's school shit because my heart isn't into it and I don't really want to

There's no need

i found that i tend to use audio as a type of mental blackboardf

I can approach random people and just talk to them

Smalltalk

i can keep track of more things using audio

Recording?

I have good social skills and I can socialize fine I just don't like to

no, my voice

Its easier to be articulate while speaking as compered to writing

Makes me come across as socially inept

trying to explain something to others

Just speaking you mean

makes me undertand it better my self