Message from @ThreeOfOne
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idk if gender had anything to do with it
yeah my mom was either constantly trying to exert control and micromanage aspects of my life or completely absent
i have another sister who got along fine with my mom
but my mom scapegoated me for everything because i was the oldest
@NativeInterface my sister has this issue with, instead of agreeing to do something or agreeing she fucked up, she vomites a hundreds words a second
usually ends in my parents screaming at her
meanwhile I'm playing vidya in the next room
not giving a fuck
lol
oof
It's like
I’ve noticed that with those around me, sorry if by some unconscious action that everyone I meet has mentally deranged parents.
kek
the roles were opposite in my family i think
"hey X can you get that shit off the table that you put there last week"
"WELLIWASGONNADOITBUTIFORGOTABOUTIANDIJUST"
"just take it upstairs"
"WellIwasGOINGtobutIGobtusytnudngofdinsgdkf"
"**JUST FUCKING DO IT**"
you get me?
I know a 2 guys who got cucked out of girlfriends because their gfs wern't lebanese
I think also people who have mental problems are very descriptive
their parents didn't approve
lol
some children just need an ass whooping
They have an excuse me for everything and they want to point it out
well it's illegal in some countries
the Russians do it right
and look how those countries turned out
you get off free for the first case of domestic abuse, then that's it
@Maddie kind of when talking about internalization vs externalization of agression
wdym
i mean not beat the shit out of the kid, inflict short term pain with no lasting consequences is ideal
so basically some families need one case of domestic violence
i dont believe that physical punishment is needed to discipline tho
just one
thats why you get your ass hit
lol
no permanent damage
The safest country on Earth is Singapore. They beat your ass if you commit a crime.
I think kids that don't encounter some sort of physical harm never really integrate the concept that others around them are real people, and have troubles with empathy
why do you think households with no fathers have high crime? imo its because theres the implicit or explicit threat that your dad could beat your ass
i used to be very anti punishment, but now that i've seen how different kids can be, i don't know anymore