Message from @Chaveca

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2018-12-20 15:15:53 UTC  

just never make it a thing of fear

2018-12-20 15:16:06 UTC  

Yeah and now you have an ice epidemic

2018-12-20 15:16:10 UTC  

my mum just used to call my uncle. crazy motherfucker, fought Muay Thai kickboxing and rocked up at 4 in the morning with a helipad shaved into his head

2018-12-20 15:16:15 UTC  

And mutliple genders

2018-12-20 15:16:19 UTC  

kids are too dumb to take explanation alone

2018-12-20 15:16:26 UTC  

Spanking makes kids afraid and, as they begin to get older, defiant. It doesn't actually work.

2018-12-20 15:16:28 UTC  

but you dont beat them, you spank them

2018-12-20 15:16:33 UTC  

my family is a little weird even for australians

2018-12-20 15:16:35 UTC  

poi

2018-12-20 15:16:37 UTC  

where you at

2018-12-20 15:16:46 UTC  
2018-12-20 15:16:47 UTC  

@coattailsandbowties need is relative

2018-12-20 15:16:53 UTC  

anyone

2018-12-20 15:16:57 UTC  

Australia

2018-12-20 15:16:59 UTC  

from aus

2018-12-20 15:16:59 UTC  

instilling respect is one thing, turning that into fear and abuse another

2018-12-20 15:17:01 UTC  

where abouts

2018-12-20 15:17:06 UTC  

Qld

2018-12-20 15:17:09 UTC  

o shit

2018-12-20 15:17:11 UTC  

same

2018-12-20 15:17:18 UTC  

and spanking is more for when they are little to dumb and young

2018-12-20 15:17:19 UTC  

Im gonna beat your ass

2018-12-20 15:17:32 UTC  

You better not be in brisbane

2018-12-20 15:17:32 UTC  

gonna have to reach up boi

2018-12-20 15:17:35 UTC  

near

2018-12-20 15:17:38 UTC  

like an hour

2018-12-20 15:17:43 UTC  

Gold coast

2018-12-20 15:17:44 UTC  

when they are older you should only hit them if they hit someone in the house

2018-12-20 15:17:48 UTC  

sunshine

2018-12-20 15:17:50 UTC  

but by that is too late

2018-12-20 15:17:54 UTC  

I used to live there

2018-12-20 15:18:00 UTC  

R I P

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2018-12-20 15:18:02 UTC  

fuck yeah man what end

2018-12-20 15:18:13 UTC  

Dunno it was a while ago

2018-12-20 15:18:16 UTC  

Chancellor park

2018-12-20 15:18:29 UTC  

And uet kids today are brats

2018-12-20 15:18:32 UTC  

thats relatively close

2018-12-20 15:18:34 UTC  

And have no respect

2018-12-20 15:18:35 UTC  

@Chaveca way I see it, if you're yelling at your kid, and you're gonna spank them, it's way too easy to let emotion dictate and for you to use it to offset your anger. In that case, it's far too easy to hit too hard, and you *really* don't want to get into the habit of taking your anger out on your kids.

2018-12-20 15:19:00 UTC  

And theres a rise of that and a rise of "if you say anything mean to timmy its abuse"

2018-12-20 15:19:01 UTC  

Better to take 10 minutes to calm down and think of a better way to deal with it.