Dont let them be comfortable it defeats the purpose

hands on head, standing, face the corner

nothing less

yeah I usualy do that by putting her on the crib

The point isn't being uncomfortable, it's boredom.

kids are not capable of reasoning at that age

since she doesnt use it anymore

@heathermanyeah i dont mind how my parents raised me

@Chaveca How old is the kid in question?

3

that is apparent

good enough for me good enough for them

My issue that my ma wont back off and im an adult now

So now its a little weird

And annoying

@tequila me either tbh, as hard as it was i wouldnt change it

Goodness, honestly not much will work. Kids around that age won’t understand consequences no matter how much you drill it in to them.

even if you dont think your situation is abuse the only way I can see for you to get out of it is abuse services and they will very likely take you

I recommend it because fuck living in that situation

Its not abuse you are weak willed

that is what I was saying @Cow

right great

but ignore that

look at the real

Moms just a bit full on

Ello ello

you can get out of there with abuse services

But its not abuse

Im back

@Chaveca All I can say is improvise and avoid hitting ya kid.

so?

"it's not pain if you can just tough it out, pussy"

They understand emotion at that age. Say what they've done has upset you, put them in time out for like 10 minutes, come back after that and say again they've upset you, and ask if they're sorry for upsetting you @Chaveca

And a new reformed man

i didnt start spanking until 4

Im not calling abuse services when its not abusr

Leave that for people who need it

at that point, he was old enough to understand right and wrong and when to do something and when not

what if they think you need it

dont take advice from this server

Keep it very very simple. Just say you're sad or upset, they do understand that.