Message from @Koninos

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2020-03-08 21:50:35 UTC  

Showing it is not a necessity for facing pain lol

2020-03-08 21:50:49 UTC  

What's the inference point there?

2020-03-08 21:51:13 UTC  

Its not

2020-03-08 21:51:26 UTC  

> You’re less likely to overcome pain if you face it by yourself
@moira

2020-03-08 21:51:39 UTC  

You said it was
> How do you expect to face pain with someone else if you don’t show it

2020-03-08 21:51:39 UTC  

Individualism is not required in Stoicism.

2020-03-08 21:52:41 UTC  

Because > Stoicism doesn't require facing the pain by yourself.

2020-03-08 21:52:59 UTC  

@Koninos Also that goes against the definition of stoicism

2020-03-08 21:53:14 UTC  

What you found in Google isn't a correct or complete definition.

2020-03-08 21:53:26 UTC  

Not all definitions in Google are correct.

2020-03-08 21:54:32 UTC  

And yet again, many Stoics have found the display of pain in the attempt of the individual to face the pain, unnecessary.

2020-03-08 21:54:44 UTC  

But that depends on the person.

2020-03-08 21:55:04 UTC  

And here I come, saying that it should be involved in parenting, so more people get to face pain without displaying it.

2020-03-08 21:55:18 UTC  

Because the display of pain can hold you back from facing it.

2020-03-08 21:55:48 UTC  

When you look in the mirror and see pain, you become sad. When you look in the mirror and see strength, you become happy.

2020-03-08 21:55:55 UTC  

Stoicism is a path to happiness.

2020-03-08 21:56:34 UTC  

> Stoicism. It's the philosophy of the endurance of pain, in whatever form it comes, without the display of emotions. Personally, I view Stoicism as a very good way to become tougher, and I have implemented it into my lifestyle. The tougher you are, the more ready you are to face hardships. However, the very lack of display of emotions comes with certain disadvantages. The display of emotions can help you achieve many things, among them being the manipulation of others, which is immoral, yet very useful. Personally I display my emotions only when I have to or want to, to achieve a specific goal. While in situations of pain or hardship and out of context, I do not display my emotions.
@Koninos

2020-03-08 21:56:44 UTC  

Your definition then.

2020-03-08 21:56:51 UTC  

Goes against what you just said

2020-03-08 21:58:32 UTC  

Later on, before you hopped in the debate, I made clear that the lack of display of pain is a consequence of facing the pain.

> And yet again, many Stoics have found the display of pain in the attempt of the individual to face the pain, unnecessary.
That justifies the invalidity of Google's definition.

2020-03-08 21:59:00 UTC  

And I also listed the advantages of the absence of display of pain.

2020-03-08 22:02:58 UTC  

The first sentence in your definition of stoicism is it’s the endurance of pain without the display of emotions

2020-03-08 22:03:20 UTC  

So if you display emotions when facing pain, according to what you said, you’re not a stoic

2020-03-08 22:03:29 UTC  

That's the goal of Stoicism, which is not mutually exclusive from it's definition.

2020-03-08 22:04:18 UTC  

No, you're not a Stoic if you display emotions when facing pain. @moira

2020-03-08 22:04:19 UTC  

If you do, then you're in the process of being a Stoic.

2020-03-08 22:04:25 UTC  

What you said isn’t any different from googles definition

2020-03-08 22:04:27 UTC  

Perhaps I didn't define definition well enough, I should've mentioned that was the goal.

2020-03-08 22:04:29 UTC  

But anyhow, now you know what I meant.

2020-03-08 22:04:45 UTC  

Yes, but you interpreted Google's definition falsely.

2020-03-08 22:05:04 UTC  

And that's why I said that Google's definition is incomplete.

2020-03-08 22:05:39 UTC  

The definition is the end result

2020-03-08 22:06:07 UTC  

Not necessarily.

2020-03-08 22:06:11 UTC  

From what you said, googles definition is the end result

2020-03-08 22:06:17 UTC  

Yes.

2020-03-08 22:07:34 UTC  

But it's incomplete because the person who's in the process of achieving Stoicism's goal, is considered a Stoic, and therefore a part of Stoicism, too.

2020-03-08 22:07:53 UTC  

The definition isn't always the end result, and certainly not in this case.

2020-03-08 22:08:37 UTC  

If you’re in the process of becoming a Stoic, you aren’t a stoic

2020-03-08 22:08:39 UTC  

Not yet

2020-03-08 22:08:46 UTC  

That doesn’t make sense

2020-03-08 22:09:07 UTC  

I didn't say that. I said that the person who is in the process of achieving Stoicism's goal is considered a Stoic.