Not sad that its over

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Still can't get over my great grandma and it's been 5 years.

My wife always said that to me when she was in hospital

You never get over grandparents mate @Sechesin

Never

What do you fancy doing coats?

With what?

You never really get over anyone it seems.

Never regretted anything more than not talking to her when I had the chance. But had to be a fucking mute...

I dunno like anything

Pick a thing

I have no idea what I'm gonna do when my grandparents die. I haven't spoken to my dad in years and never want to again, but at the same time I'd want to go to his parents' funerals.

Right so fuck that

It is okay man. Don't regret things like that. In retrospect it may have been too hard for you to say anything during that time. @Sechesin

Its shitty but the past is set in stone, just be greatfull that you spent time with her, it probobly meant the world to her when you did @Sechesin

You go visit them around him, is that an option?

I mean my gparents are great, they still come see us a lot. Just my dad isn't welcome.

The issue is at their inevitable funerals

I'd probably go on the proviso that he doesn't come near me and with someone who can help me handle.

My granddad tells the same long stories all the time, i know I'll miss them when i know I'll never hear them again

I've just realised I'm liable for medical bud thanks to my shot hands and nerves

Their funerals will be shite aye, but then do you really have to deal with him any more?

If you can, talk to your grandparents while they're still around, @ everyone. Don't think I'll ever get over not doing so.

Nerve damage? Any pain with that? @Strayan't

I would look into Gabapentin or phenibut for that.

@Turtle No feeling mate, opposite. It's like a numb pain if you get what I mean

Lady was alive for 2 world wars, a great depression and the moon landings and my dumbass just nodded whenever she tried to converse.

Oh yeah. I have nerve damage but it is mostly pain on my back.

Yikes

GIMPS

Hi tea

All this sad talk

Alright mate.

Makin me sad

You don't have to talk to someone to value their company. I can guarantee she was happy you were there, even if you weren't necessarily talking. @Sechesin

Relationship talk zzzzzz

Exactly

@Tea go sleep then we're being empathetic

@coattailsandbowties I'm just being a cunt. I just got hame, shut it.

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