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now this doesnt happen immediately, it comes over time

Idk... Im Sorry

but the same thing with positive effects of it

and i dont really see a way around it

I see what you mean

would be better to just stop being trans for my own health

but its not possible

No. It is something you will have to learn to live with in some way or another

So we need a possible solution

so now what?

i have no idea

i know my body is kinda feminine

my face is not

Just therapy might help

and aging wont make it better

You could do face surgery stuff

At least. Help you sort through it

therapy helps a lot

I know expensive

and it might not be that good

human connection helps

support

A lot

going outside and getting a therapist is hard

Help you think about it another way
I'm told therapy helps you think about problems from different ways

You could learn to contour with make up

anxiety bad

You can make your face look different doing that

well yeah i have some pics where i do look feminine

where i received help

I had to go to my doctor. Got a referral to the hospital. Not sure how it works there

Therapy helps a lot

i have one but finding a doctor is haaaaard

It was a lot of referrals and waiting

Yeah, like @Syenite mentioned...it gives you more of an "outside looking in" type of approach

german healthcare system is under huge pressure, thanks immigration

i had to wait ~8 months for the therapist a few years ago

That sucks

only to have him ignore me

oof