I literally broke down crying, and I rarely do that.

Trust

It changes from a living trust to an administrative trust

You have to grieve no matter what it is all part of saying good bye

I'm the administrator and have to distribute the assets

Oh boy the fun begins

Yeah I kind of guessed that part

You being Admin

They didn't do what they were supposed to do when Dad died and I had to do a bunch with the insurance policies and stocks, etc.

Now they're pulling this

Because someone wants to start the Holiday early???

Don't know.

Times like this can bring out the very worst in people

Tough shit they can start their hoilday whenever

I will try to keep it together and be a decent human being

I did let them know I was unhappy about it, but didn't get nasty about it.

Soooo Q drops

Stuff starting to happen again.

Exciting.

Doesn't do any good to get nasty those memories will haunt you for the rest of your life

Good point @tattered flag

Just keep focused on the objective and know that there are many here that love you and care about you. I will be praying for his guidance in your lfe at this time

Thank you, my friend.

Appreciate that.

For what it is worth I have been through that also and I hated every minute of those times

It helps that my daughters have been very supportive.

Wish my brother could help out more.

When the time is rght you can turn the page and go on with your life knowing that you were the better person

He is helping take care of his 100 year old mother-in-law

Brother? Probably not gonna help would be my guess

Whoa!

Not so much.

I put him in charge of Dad's room.

My daughters and I are doing the rest of the apartment.

Seems fair to me.

Good idea let him get in there and deal with it

Dad saved every piece of paper he ever got, I think.

We've made a lot of progress.

Oh boy I know that as well. That generation were saving everything oriented

It's hard to let go of things - lots of memories.

Yes, depression era.