Message from @Gailm

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2019-11-26 19:20:06 UTC  

I think I might have walking pneumonia right now

2019-11-26 19:20:16 UTC  

Got sick the night of Mom's funeral

2019-11-26 19:20:29 UTC  

Then really sick the day of her burial

2019-11-26 19:20:36 UTC  

That was the 13th & 14th

2019-11-26 19:20:40 UTC  

Stress can cause those sorts of problems to manifest themself

2019-11-26 19:20:57 UTC  

I'm sure that's what brought it on.

2019-11-26 19:21:13 UTC  

Me too or that would be my guess

2019-11-26 19:21:14 UTC  

Now the lawyer sent an email cancelling the 1:30 appointment tomorrow

2019-11-26 19:21:21 UTC  

And setting it for next week.

2019-11-26 19:21:30 UTC  

Probate?

2019-11-26 19:21:34 UTC  

I literally broke down crying, and I rarely do that.

2019-11-26 19:21:41 UTC  

Trust

2019-11-26 19:21:54 UTC  

It changes from a living trust to an administrative trust

2019-11-26 19:22:01 UTC  

You have to grieve no matter what it is all part of saying good bye

2019-11-26 19:22:09 UTC  

I'm the administrator and have to distribute the assets

2019-11-26 19:22:12 UTC  

Oh boy the fun begins

2019-11-26 19:22:25 UTC  

Yeah I kind of guessed that part

2019-11-26 19:22:30 UTC  

You being Admin

2019-11-26 19:22:52 UTC  

They didn't do what they were supposed to do when Dad died and I had to do a bunch with the insurance policies and stocks, etc.

2019-11-26 19:22:58 UTC  

Now they're pulling this

2019-11-26 19:23:09 UTC  

Because someone wants to start the Holiday early???

2019-11-26 19:23:12 UTC  

Don't know.

2019-11-26 19:23:25 UTC  

Times like this can bring out the very worst in people

2019-11-26 19:23:47 UTC  

Tough shit they can start their hoilday whenever

2019-11-26 19:23:56 UTC  

I will try to keep it together and be a decent human being

2019-11-26 19:24:20 UTC  

I did let them know I was unhappy about it, but didn't get nasty about it.

2019-11-26 19:24:32 UTC  

Soooo Q drops

2019-11-26 19:24:38 UTC  

Stuff starting to happen again.

2019-11-26 19:24:41 UTC  

Exciting.

2019-11-26 19:24:53 UTC  

Doesn't do any good to get nasty those memories will haunt you for the rest of your life

2019-11-26 19:25:18 UTC  

Good point @tattered flag

2019-11-26 19:25:38 UTC  

Just keep focused on the objective and know that there are many here that love you and care about you. I will be praying for his guidance in your lfe at this time

2019-11-26 19:25:49 UTC  

Thank you, my friend.

2019-11-26 19:25:54 UTC  

Appreciate that.

2019-11-26 19:26:16 UTC  

For what it is worth I have been through that also and I hated every minute of those times

2019-11-26 19:26:39 UTC  

It helps that my daughters have been very supportive.

2019-11-26 19:26:48 UTC  

Wish my brother could help out more.

2019-11-26 19:26:57 UTC  

When the time is rght you can turn the page and go on with your life knowing that you were the better person

2019-11-26 19:27:00 UTC  

He is helping take care of his 100 year old mother-in-law

2019-11-26 19:27:13 UTC  

Brother? Probably not gonna help would be my guess

2019-11-26 19:27:23 UTC  

Whoa!