Message from @Uberduperdrew
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Agreed. The whole situation honestly didn’t take as much of a toll on me as people assume it did. I always tell myself to be grateful he never actually traveled to where I lived.
I hope you are feeling better about it now. It's got to have really messed you up, having that kind of thing over you.
I am not a councilor or anything, so apologies if I have said anything wrong here.
No it’s fine you’ve honestly responded a lot better than most have. My brother just said “that sucks man”.
Ah, I'm sorry to hear that. I guess most people don't really know how to react to this stuff - myself included.
He probably just doesn't really know how to talk about it.
I wouldn’t either, honestly. I told him, he told me it sucked, and everything was good. I didn’t expect anything else really.
I'm going to have to go to bed now - work tomorrow - but I do wish you better experiences in the future. Hopefully we can all put our bad times behind us.
Agreed. Goodnight and hope you sleep well!
Goodnight.
You too, for whenever you guys go to bed. 😃
Nn
Someone tried to #metoo me as well. I wasn't even in a relationship with her I was just renting a room from her.
How did that work out?
She basically sent me this crazy email with accusations that i had "turned violent" and was "obsessed with her family". Also threatedned to go to get a protection order against me .
This was over me not taking the trash out yet one morning. I was sick and they weren't coming for like another 6 hours.
So I moved in to a hotel
It's good nothing further happened then, no sense staying around that
She ended up losing her house
Presumably through something unrelated?
Lives*
She hadn't paid her mortgage in like two years
Maybe the trash you left in the house that time started a fire and it burned down
Oh ok
The whole point in me renting from her was so she could keep her house
I was trying to help her
She had this son story about having been abused by this long list of dudes
Then I realised I was going to be the next dude on the list
I find that usually when someone says that every other relationship has been abusive toward someone it's usually them that has the problem
Yeah true
You were already friends before you rented a room from her then?
I knew her a long time ago. We were romantically involved one summer .
Then no contact until a few months before I rented a room from her
When I say a long time ago I mean like almost 20 years
Wow, usually if you lose contact with someone that long you never manage to even find them again
There's a certain person in the Netherlands I wish I knew how to get hold of. Oh well.
Hi all
Good morning
@Uberduperdrew Would you let me use your metoo story on the website?
IDK, would it have personally udentifyable info?