but by grace you are saved

How dare you

judge not

Why would you be saved?

if you judge you will be judged yourself

because grace does away with sin

This theology is truly disgusting

did you have sex before marriage?

This very logic would also absolve any other sin

It would absolve cheating on a spouse as well

you could say, deliberate sin is the only sin that currently counts

"but by grace you are saved"

Just stick that after adultery

Disgusting

adultery is deliberate

And sex before marriage isn't?

but if im a young lad, i just come across a girl i like, she likes me and things happen

Give me a break

then thats not sin

love covers alot of sin says the bible

This theology is bankrupt

Galatians 5:4

New International Version
You who are trying to be justified by the law have been alienated from Christ; you have fallen away from grace.

What is right is right, what is wrong is wrong

If sex before marriage is wrong, which you claim, then it is wrong. Period.

i never said it is wrong

Oh so it's not wrong now.

You're a liar.

the law states that it is sinful yet in this case it is accounted for by grace if it is done lovingly

"to have sex before marriage is sin"

Bullshit

If it's done lovingly

You should be ashamed of yourself

dude.

How can you sin against God with love

no, it is not sinful

if it is done by love

Can you sin in love

1 Peter 4:8 New International Version (NIV)
8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

Can you cheat on your wife "in love"?

no, unless you're mentally confused, or just wicked.