Especially when you have a connection with said person, to just cut ties without a transition is like quitting cold turkey

Yeah, it hurts a lot. I still care about her as more than a friend and even if we can’t be together I still want her to be alright. No goyim stealing qt Italian ex gf.

I understand that feeling, I care about a lot of people, even if they leave my life

I want her to not be pushed around, the more I think about it, it makes so much sense and I should’ve realized this before. She was just getting manipulated the entire time.
>hangs out with gays
>specific Karen in the mix has some old dirt on me
>”friend” of gf tells therapist that I’m putting too much weight on gf
>gf breaks up with me next morning
>”never loved him”
>”it’s all (femanon)’s fault, she tried to set us up»
>had clear feelings that she wanted to stay with me forever last week

First- Fucking Karens

Second it sucks that she's easily pushed around

Yeah, the Karen seems like she was trying to push herself to Haedyn - as Karen’s do

Damn it Karen

I suggest like i said before to try and talk to her when you get back to class and figure things out. At least tie up a loose end even if it womt go anywhere

>Karen took the opportunity of having kids

I agree with that templar, I intend to

Just don't do anything extreme like blaming her friends for what happened. Instead just say "guess all those weeks were wasted then if it was gonna end that easly" a small enough hit to let them know you're not taking it lying down

Just try to keep a cool head at least

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Templar has a point

Being extreme would be too risky, especially since you still want to get back with her

Yeah, I won’t bring her friends into it unless we actually become friends and have talked for a few weeks

Also just a question no offense intended. Did you tell your gf about the karen who had dirt on you?

That seems a not like a glaring error imo

I didn’t really think she was talking or listening to the Karen so no. I didn’t see her as a threat, boy was I wrong.

Well if your gf meantions what she said, come out clean to her about the situation and what happened

Okay

By being honest with her that can cause her to see there's still some trust

^

trust is vital in these situations

Alright, thanks. My only big leap anymore is how I go to talk to her, I want to talk to her but who knows by now, she might hate me. I want to know how to approach her and hold a convo.

I knew her so well as her boyfriend that I don’t know how to approach her as just another person

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Felt that too much

Just go up and ask "hey can we talk for a bit, you didn't really explain all that well what happened"

Simple as that

Just try to remain calm

Okay

Ome of the biggest mistakes I've made in trying to handle past situations is not going in calm and with a clear head. Go slow, and be careful with your words

Thanks Templar, thanks beans

No problem even though I feel like I didn't contribute much lmao

Good luck il. And make sure she's alone and not with any friends if you suspect their the reason just incase. But don't stalk her until she's alone for obvious reasons

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Don't do that

Wtf i got a match on tinder

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