she only had it after her newbf left her

i think

Cheating on em might not have been the best move but you still dodged a bullet in the end

i agree

i feel bad about the way it ended

but fuck her

I get that

I just wish I wasn't always the on with the short end of the stick in breakups

i feel you

always getting cheated on thrown away like I was nothing, big oof

oh right and one of my gf's fucking died

Ya gotta stand up for yourself fam

It's the only way

^

>getting cheated on
Y'all fuckin deserve better

stand up for yourself and learn to be your own person and how to be strong on your own

that way noone can push you around

agreed with sheep

I'm very independent, I don't let people push me around, in fact I've kinda made some shitty decisions revolving around that. The only problem is: getting let down easy (not getting called a bag of shit essentially) makes it harder for me to stop seeing them as somebody I love. Because of that it's really hard to be mad at them. I wish I didn't have the temper of a stoner.

i see

well

then expect the worst

that way youll always either be right or happily surprised

and force yourself to get to know the person before you actually treat them as a partner (ie: putting weight into their words)

yeah, I always expect the worst at the start, then the girl really picks me up. We typically have at least a few months of pure heaven. Then everything goes to shit in less than a week, always does.

Never get rid of the idea of a bad outcome

Always keep the idea in the back of your mind as a reminder as things could suddenly turn

And when we say stand up for yourself were not talking about defending yourself

^

Were talking about nit taking any petty excuse

Not taking the garbage that someone will say to cover their asses

It's putting your foot down and saying "no, what you did was wrong and unforgivable"

only problem is: I only get GF's when I'm going through a 'go getter' phase. When I'm my normal self I always expect the worst, always. I'm a very nihilistic guy who doesn't believe anything besides the voices in my head. that's why nobody wants to date me, I'm way too negative for a happy-go-lucky girl I'd want. Rip.

also, call me childish, I really hate to stick it to a girl when what she did was bad. good example is of Haedyn (latest breakup) she called me a bitch and had a plethora of bullshit to spew about me and I still couldn't get *that* mad. I was upset for like 10 minutes. I love people too much to hurt their feelings 90% of the time. It just hurts to upset people I still care about, I know it's stupid, It's just a habit.

And that's the problem. You're afraid to say no, to stand your ground, etc. I used to be the same but after all the shit that happened i realised that some peopl just deserve to get called out like your recent break up. The two of you went through so much BS toghether and she just up and left you over what, being concerned for her, loving her. That's just some straight bull if you ask me

I'm sorry to say but there's just some cases where you have to stand up for ypurself and show that you can be just as stern as the other person whether you like it or not

And theres a diffrence between sticking it to em and calling em out, and doing full blown revenge

Fucking why.
This fucking god damn suck.
I sleep for what felt like 1000 years but end up waking up a hour before my alarm goes off? Not only that, it was only 3 hours of sleep so I still feel shitty reeeeeee

Because sleeping is ass sometimes

>sleep is ass
>mfw I'm constantly chasing the booty

>casin' the booty