Message from @Z-Man (soon to be Y A)
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I have no problem with adoption
You just have to pay attention to the state of your country and ask yourself, is this getting worse or better.
If it isn't complete shit already, also good luck adopting as a single man
here's something I noticed people find being ok with adopting and rejecting being a stepdad contradictory, its isnt
because in an adoption frame, the kid is not of her dna either
I view it as you're taking on a child that you want to raise (adoption) vs you're taking on a women that brings a kid (being a cuck)
but in stepfatherdom
She breeds but the Sucker I mean stepdad doesnt
so I would absolutely prefer to do the solo single adoptive dad thing
Adoption isn’t really a bad deal
It’s not gynocentric
You’re not taking care of a parasite to achieve fatherhood
and that is preferable to being stepdad or being cucked
Well, of some kind
Oh definitely
I think in this country a single man can adopt, I hope
The problem is actually adopting a child as a single man.
I hope they dont see me as a pedo
Do you want to raise a child without a competent mother?
Preferably
Competent mother? That’s an oxymoron
not necessarily
Or complete moron depending
Ma is the closest thing I saw to a nawal and even then she's not perfect
While women in general will never love you they are capable of loving their offspring
the deadbeat was more often than not my father
It is proven that children do best in a home with a mother and a father
who grew up spoiled in a rich family
Well you gotta cut corners regardless a man that wants that kind of thing is limited in choice
Yea, I'm just arguing it's best to not even but I hear you
TFM had a study that showed the graduation rate of single parent families where the sole parent is the father is the same as two parent households.
and my mom had a much harsher start in life despite being born into money (divorce)
graduation rate is not the full picture but i do agree a father is better than a mother if you can only have one
Coltaine also had a vid on that
It's something, im sure there are other stats out there
I just know for me if i could give them both i would just rather not even have a child
So if you take the cost into account “best” might not even be worth the price tag
If you can afford a nanny, they arnt missing much
women are not worth the asking price today, wholesale
I know of one girl raised by a single dad, she's one of the most level headed to nobody surprise she got hitched rather quickly