there go the Z-man Jrs

I'm more convinvced I'm not doing it

I have no problem with adoption

You just have to pay attention to the state of your country and ask yourself, is this getting worse or better.

If it isn't complete shit already, also good luck adopting as a single man

here's something I noticed people find being ok with adopting and rejecting being a stepdad contradictory, its isnt

because in an adoption frame, the kid is not of her dna either

I view it as you're taking on a child that you want to raise (adoption) vs you're taking on a women that brings a kid (being a cuck)

but in stepfatherdom

She breeds but the Sucker I mean stepdad doesnt

so I would absolutely prefer to do the solo single adoptive dad thing

Adoption isn’t really a bad deal

It’s not gynocentric

You’re not taking care of a parasite to achieve fatherhood

and that is preferable to being stepdad or being cucked

Well, of some kind

Oh definitely

I think in this country a single man can adopt, I hope

The problem is actually adopting a child as a single man.

I hope they dont see me as a pedo

Do you want to raise a child without a competent mother?

Preferably

which is a concern I expressed to my mom

Competent mother? That’s an oxymoron

not necessarily

Or complete moron depending

Ma is the closest thing I saw to a nawal and even then she's not perfect

While women in general will never love you they are capable of loving their offspring

the deadbeat was more often than not my father

It is proven that children do best in a home with a mother and a father

who grew up spoiled in a rich family

Well you gotta cut corners regardless a man that wants that kind of thing is limited in choice

Yea, I'm just arguing it's best to not even but I hear you

TFM had a study that showed the graduation rate of single parent families where the sole parent is the father is the same as two parent households.

and my mom had a much harsher start in life despite being born into money (divorce)

graduation rate is not the full picture but i do agree a father is better than a mother if you can only have one

Coltaine also had a vid on that

It's something, im sure there are other stats out there

I just know for me if i could give them both i would just rather not even have a child

So if you take the cost into account “best” might not even be worth the price tag

If you can afford a nanny, they arnt missing much