Message from @Five, Seven, and Two
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Hmmm. My advice: Give yourself a month where you get a quick, vanilla fap out in the morning. Have a go-to list, something that requires a minimal amount of thought and effort. Throughout the day, when you catch yourself sitting and thinking about sex or staring at a girl, find some replacement behavior for that. Pick a book series, jump on the Discord and talk about something else, or drop and hammer out 20 pushups. Doesn't really matter as long as it's a distraction that works.
I'll try that out
I am working in the afternoon and my brain gets exhausted
exausted
then I fap and go back to work
I dont think this is healthy at all
I'll switch to regular office on february
how fast can you bust a nut?
As a general rule, if you've got time to be thinking about a thot, you've got time you could be working out, learning a new skill, making money, or learning about something you don't know.
with and without porn
@Five, Seven, and Two YES! thats why i want to kill my sex drive
without porn i cant at all
i mean 15 minutes
with porn i can in 5
15 without porn?
yes
try to drop it to 5 without porn
im thinking about taking Escitalopram on february too
on a non regular dosis, maybe half or quarter of a pill
i've heard of some guys who do it
Especially at your age.
why?
You're still 3 to 5 years from full brain development and you're at the neuroelasticity and habit-building phase, the set that lets you really expand your knowledge and self-awareness.
i've taken some before, but i stopped
think about becoming totaly NUMB
i was like a robot
Yeah, that shit's poison to the male brain.
what is this habit building phase? elaborate
i'm way smarter, faster, funnier without them, but i was thinking about taking low dosis
As men approach 25 to 28, their brains work on a lot of "entrenching". Muscle memory, logic habits, pattern recognition.
im really that age
what should i be focusing on until then?
err
I took lots of meds already, not because of libido, but because I "had" to
nearly that age*
Think of a grid of dots connected only by vertical or horizontal lines. A man's 20s is what draws diagonal lines between all those dots.
now that I'm out, the difference is huge
but i didnt know that brain development thing
was thinking about taking a dosis so low it didnt fuck my brain chemistry up
@haku. Focus on a skillset that'll make you money, doesn't drive you insane, and improve/expand on it.