apparently they don't handle it well

@Sigma I never approached any women to ask them out or anything but I had this one experience when a girl my age ask me out and I try to reject her in the most polite way possible but after that she went nuts and tried to destroy my reputation everywhere she could

wtf...I usually ghost

sometimes you can't

I was banging this hottie and she ended up asking me out

right before uni semester was about to start

I turned her down on the basis that I was committed to my studies and that I would be a poor boyfriend due to not spending time with her

she blew her lid, toys out of the cot

there are two girls that I rejected indirectly. My friend told me a girl liked me and I told him they weren't my type. same friend with both girls too

nothing bad happened to me as far as i know, but idk what goes on when I'm not around

yeah man they can try and trash your rep\

but that's insane

this was a few years ago though when things weren't as bad

I didn't have as many bad experiences as you guys but I guess because I always say to them that I don't want to have sex with them sometimes it makes them go nuts and tell me that I am gay or try to shame me

why do they even care so much? Do they take it as a hit on their self worth?

it means everything to them

the power to attract a mate

if thye are turned down it destroys their ego

I always advise virgin guys to never have sex it's the worst drug you can take you will be addicted to it for life and it could possibly ruin your life

good advice

I was thinking the other day about that

I'm kind of lucky that I've never experienced sex

I don't believe in celibacy

I know the addictive potential in it

I have never had sex and I will never have sex

man you guys are missing out haha

doesn't mean you should spend your life trying to get sex, but definitely don't rule it out if you get the chance, it's awesome

i know I'm missing out and that shit used to kill me

@Shaunuss I know that it is great but can you live without it now that you got a taste of it

If i do get the chance I would, but I won't go out of my way to do so

yeah dude quite easilty

last time I smashed was in early july

It's not about happiness it's about discipline

Can you control your urges?

naturally

Sex transmutation is an interesting topic, that's what NoFappers do

They channel that energy towards different endeavors

Self-pleasuring is a whole nother can of worms

It is

man if I get the uncontrollable urge I just fap it out, get it over with

and go back to thinking with my big head