men die

ideas live forever

i mean. you do you. but hey. remember. you can adopt i say

i know

your name could live for hundreds of years through your teachings, not your lineage

and oh by the way

Listen. I would get the kid via surrogate FROM Brazil. Come to the US where I LIVE. Have a long-term girlfriend who does not have my kids and is not married.

if you think you're propagating your name by having kids

IF I wanted a family.

what happens when you have a daughter and she marries and takes her husband's name

@MufflePuff that could work. granted that she doesnt live with you. also id say you have to watch for dv claims.

and you don't have a son/grandson etc.

then you lose your name anyway

Hmmmmm true, DV.

the little towns

You can choose the sex when it’s a surrogate.

more and more countries nowadays are starting to crack down on that.

they call it sex tourism @MufflePuff

taiwan and indonesia are doing it right now

get dv claims and your kids custody is at risk. but it is a relatively safe plan i say

why have a girlfriend altogether

i don't get it

she doesn't do anything for you outside of sex

some guys like having girlfirnes

Well honestly it’s all too much headache for me.

literally nothing

Harmony 😍

hermit has a casual gf right now

even then

it opens you up to a lot of risk

and the effort to vet is arguably not worth it

law of diminishing returns

sure. thats up for each person to determine themselves

Vetting is pretty easy once you get used to it.

true

but objectively speaking no contact is the safer route

you and me dont see the point. some guys may get something out of it. and sure. it is safer. but balancing saftey with happiness is important

I'm not at the level of no contact yet, but I'd like to be

I’ve never had problems with women. You have to know what you’re doing. (#PUAMuff) <:frenchpepe:480186128452943883>

but what do they get out of it? female validation? thought the whole point was to free ourselves from that

lol frenchpepe