Message from @Kou
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The city i live in is pretty small, full of elders. If you call it major the closest is probably in fukuoka. Which is like 2 hours bus at least
Okay. Are you a JET?
JET?
Japanese-English Teacher
student
studying in university but I don't know if I can move on.
I might be in a path to become a hikkikomori if I keep skipping class.
Are you a native or a foreigner?
I am half, born and raised in Hong Kong
I see.
but my dad is Japanese
Whats hikkikomori?
Shut in Neet.
Oh, ouch.
Well at least my parents have money. But I would probably feel like trash
Hikikomori is a psychological condition which makes people shut themselves off from society, often staying in their houses for months on end. There are at least half a million of them in Japan. It was once thought of as a young person's condition, but sufferers are getting older and staying locked away for longer.
if I become one.
Yep ^
That's terrifying
It's gonna increase if they keep pressuring people especially men.
Pressuring them in what way?
More working, man have to man up, social phobia/anxiety, social pressures and demands. It's just a lot of things but I am not sure. It just feels like men has more responsibility and pressure in society here
but I think the world should go easy on men especially during elementary school.
They have to feel love.
It's just based on my opinion
Just curious. If they stop pressuring men then they will stop being hikkokimori's?
Stop pressuring and treat them better. Show them more love
A lot of men wants to be love thats where there's TONS of 癒し(healing) products like ASMR and VNs
and I am one of those consumers xD
So Japanese women don’t care about the men?
hmmm, can't say for certain but in rl I think many women think guys as molester so they usually avoid them
Though I can say for sure japanese women is still better than the west from the rumors I heard about the feminists in the west
There are way too many factors. I would probably have to write a whole essay to cover this topic xD but there are women that care about men. However, it is uncertain if they are just acting..
Which country's women have cared about men?
Japanese women are popular to be known as having 2 faces
so its hard to trust them
Yes AWALT
Like i have followed many ASMR voice actress who works on 癒し products and they seemed all very nice. But for some reason I still can't trust them.
cus they might be faking it to gain popularity
I don’t trust any real woman anymore