False hope seems to fit

@Anylu yes but i never saw a woman who didnt take advantage of me or who is genuinely nice

Theyve all been used or abused in the past and then take it on me as revenge

They perhaps have issues and some in their mind

@Anylu but why do all girls go for abusive relationships does that mean i have to become a Bad boy? I dont wanna change myself for a woman. I have my own personality.

Then don't do it.

Except don't expect them to accept you as you are either.

This is basically what a lot of women think, they believe they should be accepted as they are, yet have certain standards for a guy.

I think guys should not be crazy about women as well to fall for them as they are all selfish and whinny. I don't get why getting a girl is that important and all.

@ColdEmbraceOfDeath but its not right to be bad person and neither does that get u anywhere in life. U'll become miserable like them

It's just our sexual drive alluring us to get one. It's not romantic love

Then don't be that person.

you should only be yourself, you should not change yourself for someone

@Kou yes

if they can't love you for who you are, then they aren't worth your time

Sex drive isn't the driving factor, the male mother need is. A lot of guys get laid but that doesn't equate to them being satisfied a lot of guys want their NAWALT and have cases of oneitis.

to love someone romantically is because you love that person for who that person is

It's psychological, not merely biological.

love is just chemicals

in the brain

Isn’t it just love in the romantic way or understanding?

@ColdEmbraceOfDeath "This is basically what a lot of women think, they believe they should be accepted as they are, yet have certain standards for a guy."
exactly

sry wats male mother need?

Love for one's own Nation & People is the only pure form of Love.

Happiness is chemicals too, so does that mean you shouldn't give a shit about it or that it has no sort of a psychological effect on you?

looking for motherly love?

Sort of, to be cared for by a woman.

ahh, yeah there is a term called Babumi in here Japan. And is a pretty popular genre in VN and hentai

AKA motherly love from your gf

I can see why.

Hmm

@Anylu why do women want to be accepted for who they are, but they dont accept me for who i am. So why should i do that. I thought feminism said we're all equal right?

http://seiga.nicovideo.jp/seiga/im7544354 one example would be this

cus that's women nature I guess

They say that but it never was their intent, for the last statement

By equality, women simply mean equality of outcomes in places where it is convenient for them amongst other crap in addition to that as well.

@Anylu those feminists want to destroy us thats their real intent. Its not about equal rights.

if they cared about equality, they'd talk about the other side of things and not pretend that it goes both ways (the whole men should open up, toxic masculinity hurts men as well crap).

even without feminists, women are still whiny and selfish creatures, more than men at least. Women are known to be selfish. So equality will be impossible to achieve from them

@Anylu equality in the Working world and general life is a good thing, but when it comes to relationships we are not equal

and laws.