what if you felt more positive emotions being alone

both

u come and go through the life alone

bad thing because if you start liking it too much you reject other states

it's not a bad or a good thing

exactly, your choice stems from how you feel in either state with the condition needing to be met is 'a postive feeling'

if you die with 10 people around you or not, mean nothing u are dead

what do you see as the reason to live? if you could say something that is as conceptual as possible that would eb rly useful

the most important it's to not have any regrets and to have the feeling, that you done your best to live the life as you liked

what components make up a life you 'liked'?

i got through hard time 1 eyar ago, i almost killed myself because there were no reasons for me to live as this moment

because i lived as the society told me to live, and i was empty as fuck

yeah - most people don't realise how shallow their lives rly are

@JDB if u 'need' a reason to live u r stuck n some nasty nihilistic mud...

however ignorance is bliss - some would say that the way we think is shallow . it's all relative to your exposure throughout life

I think you go through life to discover yourself and to discover your purpose and what u really like

find yourself and accept it

and doing all of those things will bring about a positive emotion

respect it and love it more than anyone

so we're chasing a positive emotion?

of course those things will help you to chase the bad emotions

@ziyauren i'm not saying that without a reason to live you should'nt live - i am just trying to decompose the reason we do things subconsciously

@JDB its all jus bio evolution... jus njoy it

just decomposing this makes me happy, and brings about positive emotions

its the secret to giving zero shits😄

it was common for our grand parent, but nor for people today, because the society, the tv shows and the social networks distract us for what really count for us

i understand that, but without understanding how our subconscious works aren't we just going on autopilot? i want to take control of my subconscious - i don't know why i want to - maybe it's because i think the grass will be greeenr

u can't 'control' ur subconcious... u can only repress and direct it

i can try and understand why it works the way it does though

true

and once you know that, you can begin to rewire the principles drilled in at a young age that you live by without even knowing

u cant control it, u can only learn about yourself, what trauma u got through life from your birthday to today, work on them and reduce the power of your subconscious

and to 'put' the updated hardware into your subconscious there's only 1 way to open the 'gate' - repetition

it comes from your lizard brain... all instinct... controlling and ddirecting it is no more complicated than holding ur breath

Is that actually possible? Affecting the subconscious mind on a conscious level?

you know how people think that the idea of 'the grass will be greener' as a shallow thought ... isnt that exactly what evolution is? evolution is the idea that eventual changes to where 'we' currently are will lead to 'something better' .

@Rhunespire no u can only learn to recognize it so u can control the outcome

reduce the power, for sure, if you understanding the reason why your subconscious act like this

@Rhunespire well yeah, things only get put into your subconscious through repetition and the stuff in your lizard brain

It isn't exactly controlled though is it

@JDB no dont agree with that, the "grass will be greener" principle is more a society stick I guess