iunno about endangering their lives because they feel safe

i think because they are sttupid

@Gabri Why do abusive relationships exist?

They marry Mr Nice Guy and secretly dream of Mr Bad Boy (I'm not saying all of them). They feel safe with both but always choose the safer option. "Safe" is THEIR definition not necessarily anyone else's

@Konga because either a. They like abuse b. They want to change the guy c. They just do it to justify ride the cock carousell

bad boys make single mothers, so there goes that safe feeling

@Gabri some women feel safe in abusive relationships

Nope

It's psychology not biology

They need to feel safe; it's just the way it is

@ValleyAnt they feel save because they like abuse

That's why you see pretty women with GAY friends. "He's safe. He won't hit on me." That's why you see women with hovering betas. Everything they do comes from their need to FEEL safe, and it really forms a great wall between women and men naturally

@Gabri they don't like abuse; sometimes they're used to it and sometimes it feels good

@ValleyAnt ure contradicting urself

Women want to be hit on... but only when they feel safe. Only by guys who make them feel safe

Lol no I'm not

@ValleyAnt everyone wants to feel save even guys idiot

Women contradict themselves

Lol

Yeah but guys don't bake safety the center around which our ENTIRE lives revolve

@Gabri Go into more detail, Gabri. Why is Valley contradictory?

Women don't even understand themselves; what hope do men have when that's the case

I need a woman who knows herself; I don't need any surprises

i don't think women want to get hit on by guys who will make them feel safe

Well women contradict themselves. I'm talking from a woman's perspective and Gabri can't make sense of it as he thinks I'm talking from a man's perspective

@Konga because he said woman go for bad boys because of save, then he went on saying "That's why you see pretty women with GAY friends. "He's safe. He won't hit on me." That's why you see women with hovering betas. Everything they do comes from their need to FEEL safe, and it really forms a great wall between women and men naturally"

i think they want the hottest and most successful guy, everyone else no matter how safe can get fucked

by their own hand

@GloriousJay woman only want to be aproached by guys that they give the green light

@Gabri I don't see it yet, honestly.

Safe today, unsafe tomorrow

yah the above 6 ft blonde hair blue guys great chin 10 inch dick guys

@Konga HE SAYS 2 DIFFERENT THINGS

That's why in S&M you have the "safe word" for the woman (usually a woman) who is being abused basically

Not we have "safe spaces" for mostly women on some college campuses

@Gabri you better keep a close eye on your gf

Safe safe safe

u should look for : Buss, D.M. (1989), «Sex differences in human mate preferences: Evolutionary hypotheses tested in 37 cultures

@ValleyAnt i dont have a gf, i was just giving an example for u

Got it

research done 30 years ago