finding what i enjoy ?

when I say "man that's really fun/interesting" what's the first thing that comes to your mind?

don't say women

Rhune made a good point. You can do volunteer work and sacrifice for others just dont go overboard or put yourself in the poor house.

But it is the best way to have a purpose and to make connections.

@ToastMcGhost do waifus count? I have quite the harem

thats really a tough one im a empty vessel the only thing that seems vaguely intersting to me is hmmm maybe a little nature

there you go. hiking, nature photography, climbing a tree

nature is vast, just wander into it one day

you'll instantly feel relaxed

I've done that

yeah i started taking walks in a nearby park recently and it is somewhat relxing tb

tbh

i guess i have to explore more into

nature

Right now you're facing cognitive distortions (your brain's first instinct). Basically breaking conditioning

Brain washing takes time to undo

i think for the most part im over women i let go all resentment (red pill rage) and everything else its just im unsure where to pilot my life now since my destination of wife and kids is no longer viable

but

nature is a good place

to start as was pointed out to me

Park ranger?

You'll figure it out as you go

@matthias09 http://changingminds.org/explanations/behaviors/coping/coping.htm Saw this earlier in another server could be interesting.

^^ill give it a read

We can fill your head with knowledge and wisdom gleaned from our own experiences, but you have to choose to walk through the door that we show you

🚪

And we cant follow you through it either- its *your* door

I realized every gf I had would say "you shouldn't like ____ because it's weird" and that's when I realized 1. women only like mainstream stuff (music, etc) 2. they were trying to change my interests to meet theirs

I personally don't consume much porn at all but "fight the new drug" and all these orgs calling for "choose REAL love" make me cringe.

Real love? You mean the drug cocktail you ride high on after you bust a nut?

@ToastMcGhost messed up. What're your interest that they shit on?

Mostly metal and anime even though I never forced either on them. Some didn't want me to buy a vintage car cuz new car = status

That sucks

I shared a lot of interests with my ex's so that wasnt an issue

a lot of the times i think how many people are truly planning to stick to the mgtow script .. even tho i am like 4 months deep into it im thinking under what circumstances will i decide to give females my time of day

gets easier with age

Be civil, but avoid them altogether

@Rhunespire Yup, lol. I love reading fight the new drug and other orgs. It makes me cringe hard.

because i find it easy to ignore the average girls that talk to me but when they are really cute my mind just forgets mgtow but later on i always remember how it ends and i ghost them

You're young I presume, early 20s?