@MufflePuff i stay with the same family, some moved out. Its better now because i stop taking shit from them was i came to the realization of what was going on.

Is it tolerable to stay there another 2-3 years?

Is it stable enough.

Also do you have any kids.

Yeah it is. No kids, hell no lol. And my plan is to stay 2 years 3 tops save all the damn cash and buy land build a little home self sustained. Just seems to take forever.

And your goal is to move to the city? Which city.

Big expensive city? or what. How much would it cost.

plans can change but goals only slightly shift

Nah, no city, that was just a misunderstanding of mine as a child.

I see you SFM

So what is your goal?

Just to change your current situation?

Be out on your own?

Yeah simply be out on my own

@Peace & Quiet I am finally living alone in one month and I am 24, lol. Finally doing it 😉 So excited.

Well, the military is an option. I would suggest getting two jobs and grinding it out for a couple years.

Escaping to the internet and other hobbies in your spare time.

military is like a ...oh fuck best option

It's not for every one. I would never go.

That would be the opposite of freedom to **me**.

I got away...isn't easy but can be done

Yeah military aint freedom lol

but they don't stop sniffing to get back in when you keep them ata distance

I had 1 word but now its 2

@machtyn i bet its the shizzzz

Coast guard

@Peace & Quiet I would say get a job that pays at least $18/hour. Then find a second that pays similar or more but can fit with the schedule of the first. Something where you can still get 5-6 hours of sleep.

There are many seasonal jobs that could suffice.

@thadeal4real i actually wanted coast guard really bad but got denied

Or you could get a full-time job and have a side hustle that pays well.

@Peace & Quiet I am really going to enjoy it. It can't come quick enough.

I gave the same advice to my younger brother about living on his own....atleast 18/hr

$18/hr is kind of the threshold in many places.

no part-time though

Work your way up. @Peace & Quiet

full-time bruda.....you will find de way yo self

Two jobs can be just to stack. Then stick to one job, out on your own, doing what you want.

The closest thing i can come to is 11/hour here

11/hour plus studying...thats what i heard

I'm sure there are other options. Police, security, construction. You could get a CDL.

if you not qualified work towards that...patience is youre new lifelong companion