i have some leftovers

no regrets

ok no regrets

i like that

it's hard to explain

maybe you have to have a kind of arrogance

it really isn't once you try

whatever you are is the best possible, or the only possible

you don't know what you would be like if you had done things differently

there is a contradiction in there somewhere when we start planning stuff

like strategic thinking needs a form of regret

pain even

but let it flow

read nietzsche

maybe that doesn't work for women

i'm trying to say i think is there is the technical functional aspect of regret - very important, and the feeling is probably part of it

but the "feels bad" aspect only happens when you grab onto that feeling

yeah, well, the fact that it exists suggests that it has some function

and identify with the feeling

since we are evolutionary biology gang

ganggang

stem is right, no regrets

but you have to handle it in a way that is not debilitating

the feefees are ok, let them flow

debilitating

yes

need to keep that in my debilitated mind

regret can hurt you

everything happens for reasons, that's how we understand our history, and then sometimes those reasons are sad

but other reasons are way more sadder and it all balances out

if you survive

🌻

like lucky me

#survivors

a lady explained me today how hard her life is with all the sexism

and her social position was such that

i had to nod all the way through it

now all i can say is

be thankful that you don't have a female brain

whatever other problems you might have

never forget