Message from @stem
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you can change the future
and you can learn from the past
i want to learn from regrets
i have some leftovers
no regrets
ok no regrets
i like that
it's hard to explain
maybe you have to have a kind of arrogance
it really isn't once you try
whatever you are is the best possible, or the only possible
you don't know what you would be like if you had done things differently
there is a contradiction in there somewhere when we start planning stuff
like strategic thinking needs a form of regret
pain even
but let it flow
read nietzsche
maybe that doesn't work for women
i'm trying to say i think is there is the technical functional aspect of regret - very important, and the feeling is probably part of it
but the "feels bad" aspect only happens when you grab onto that feeling
and identify with the feeling
since we are evolutionary biology gang
ganggang
stem is right, no regrets
but you have to handle it in a way that is not debilitating
the feefees are ok, let them flow
debilitating
yes
need to keep that in my debilitated mind
regret can hurt you
everything happens for reasons, that's how we understand our history, and then sometimes those reasons are sad
but other reasons are way more sadder and it all balances out
if you survive
🌻
like lucky me
#survivors
a lady explained me today how hard her life is with all the sexism
and her social position was such that
i had to nod all the way through it
now all i can say is