Message from @Arkona 92
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lol
Well, every satire has some truth to it
Another server I was on just got nuked here on Discord. Remember to go onto the forum everybody
Which server?
What a world guys
sup goys
Hey laddy
Logging out for a bit. Exam at 8
good luck
Good luck fam
Exam was ok
You failed it
Lol, impossible really
I know I got enough points to beat the failing part of the curve
I'd need like a 12/40 to fail it
You'd be surprised
I failed English 101 by getting all Cs
That is a true statement
Well the last one was worse and I managed a B
Need some advice folks
Is it a sin to trick a jew out of his money?
@arsenicMysticist wot?
I'm considering cutting friendship in my life, specially for this certain "friend" who most of the time makes me endure some very harsh stuff, i take it with meekness and prayer but certainly he has exposed me to a lot of situations i consider i really don't need in my life, manytimes he drags me down in many aspects, and when he needs and asks advice or help i give it to him in the most charitable way possible.
However, most of the time he does not really listen, he always justifies himself, and when i try to help or correct him about that out of my own initiative he always acts impulsively and as if he was more mature than he actually is, in the end he screws up and then comes to me for counsel and well, to have an arm where to cry, then he asks me what he did wrong, and i tell hem exactly what, he accepts that but later on he gets again on more dificulties and usually faces them with that same stubborn attitude and again goes against me when i don't agree.
Frankly i can forgive a lot of the wrong stuff he may do to me or what he makes me endure with certain whims, again, i take it with patience and prayer and best interest to help him.
But lately i've began to really not be his friend anymore, i feel there is no point, i'm not mad but i simply do not feel i want to keep such relationship in my life.
However, i find myself in the dilema that God loves me despite the fact i may also act like that in my life, maybe not in the same way as him, but we are all sinners.
If God is patient with me i'm guessing is should give the same treatment to people like him.
But frankly i do not feel like keeping this person in my life.
I'll get to this I promise
Currently watching Bball game
I'm weary of his attitude, of what he pursues in life and how he always intends to get me excited about his misdoings despite the fact he knows TOO well my stance on what he does.
Sure no problem.
Enjoy the game i'll be here.
Well id say cut him loose. Become distant until you barely speak. Dont go along with his stuff. Friendship is a two way street after all
Think is we don't really speak a lot nor by social media nor in person cause i live in a different city right now, but everynow and then he comes to visit here or when i go back to my house in my town.
So, if i were to take the action i don't really know how to.
I'm guessing i should start by blocking social media?
But again, i find myself in this dilema, am i being impious by not remaining at the side of a person who "needs me"? it may be that if i cease getting along with him he may try to reconsider himself but, i just want to make sure i'm not taking an impious action here.
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So far it seems that you've mostly passive about giving him your advice, and maybe even ending it with "but that's just my opinion tho". Just be real with him. Next time you see him just say it as is and that while you do appreciate your friendship, the one-sidedness of it is getting tedious. Be honest and tell him that you're getting sick of constantly giving him advice he never listens to, and that if he wants you to keep on being his friend be better get his shit together. Make it as clear as day that this is indeed an ultimatum and that if he doesn't get his shit together, you're done.