This is a serious question

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Try to be stay cool in the genral chat.

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ik from past experience of being banished to the filthpit

it was, utterly terrifying

hello goys

what have you all been up too

I have been playing heroes of hammerwatch. In about 20 days I'm heading back home after 3 months in Germany

Work work work

Morning all.

Let's have a feels post

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@alias what’s causing you pain?

How do you justify banning divorce to an atheist?

Actually I don't even know how orthodox see divorce

Still a sin

We just dont tap dance around the issue that people are sinners and make mistakes

Atheists wouldn't give a monkeys about that, though.

You'd need to get them down to agreeing that there is a natural law.

Either way, got to find out what he cares about and play off that

And as such an objective truth.

Therefore banning divorce is a maintenance of the natural law.

Damaged childhood, for instance. Everyone cares about the children

I've a whole resource on that, similar to sodomy, but that's still in draft mode

Lax divorce also leads to promiscuity

Which would lead into the other sources.

Yea, its a comprehensive resource on everything family

Here is what she said:

"I agree with you insofar as I don't think people should be in institutions they fundamentally disagree with. Someone whose concept of marriage is egalitarian shouldn't be in an evangelical marriage; someone who is opposed to the idea of marriage shouldn't get married at all. But I wouldn't go so far as to say that only people interested in lifetime commitment should get married. I think there is room for different types of marriages and that the practice of writing one's own vows and designing one's own wedding (as opposed to all weddings taking place in a church) support that.

Even with the possibility of divorce, marriage is still a commitment. People in dating and cohabiting relationships try to work through their differences and try to maintain closeness despite the fact that their relationship isn't permanent. Some people derive a lot of meaning from the permanent element of marriage, which is fine, but I don't think it's necessary in order for people to be motivated to grow in their relationship. In fact, I think trying to force people who won't or can't work through their issues to stay together can be quite harmful."

After I said "people who don't want a lifelong commitment shouldn't get married"

Remind him that the sole purpose of marriage is to create a strong network for raising children. Not to have fun, not to get a tax write-off.

*her

She is overcomplicating issue by attaching all kinds of baggage to it like "co-habiting", "relationship", etc

Marriage isn't for fun and games. It's a sacrifice.

You leave a part of yourself behind in order to become one with another person and build a future together.

Agreed

Feel like I'm gonna be opening a can of screeching worms once I say marriage is about procreation though

But I guess that's where the fundamental disagreement lies

That is entirely what it's for though.

The idea that marriage is purely a romantic gesture is an idea that was whored out by Hallmark and Disney.