Message from @kaetaa
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These ekids don't even know how to date, let alone find out who they want to marry
Arranged marriage isn't the norm anymore but it pretty much is
The parents introduce the kids to each other more often than not
Yeah you can't date in highschool
Sometimes we will see old people outside holding signs that say shit like
Marry my daughter - we have money, give us grandkids
Honestly a good thing because highschool relationships are shit
There's places in China where they have signs posted like ads and you can choose a partner
They aren't officially arranged but they are 80%
Yeah they are all over
It's not like that anymore Patrick in their defense
It's mostly just meeting
The parents usually handle it
And chink parents are expected to buy a house and car for their son
So it's a death sentence to have 2 boys
Too expensive
So the guys here are just expected to grad uni, get a normal job, get married and then they get free house and cars
Pop out a kid, let the grandparents handle it
So the dad can smoke, drink, barely work etc
Men here have zero rsponibilities outside of work
It's a culmination of everything that is bringing them down
My fiancee was showing me her "morality" textbook when she was in primary school
So they take a class on how to be a good kid
Parents don't teach that
It says shit like "mind your business if you see people fighting "
Don't think outside the boz
Be a good boy and don't shake the system
Kind of stuff
" a good boy doesn't ask too many questions. If your friends start asking too many questions, tell an adult"
Like the whole book was pretty much "don't try to overthrow us"
There was a picture of mao on the cover
I had never seen true racism before I came to China
I've heard little jokes here and there, but not real honest racism
They hate everyone
Whoever the government tells them to hate
Japanese ,Korean
They started riots this year and burned down Korean owned stores and destroyed Korean goods
Bashed in their heads
When that whole thaad thing was going on
Because the government was telling the news to get people angry and hate Koreans