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I dont know man
Sounds as if she used this as an excuse to dump you

definitely could be tbh

It has happened to me when i was meak and clingy

With my first gf

Live and learn

True, tbh I was pretty distant with her so I don't blame her. If you're too distant they leave, if you're too attached they leave, truly we live in a society

They leave. They all leave sooner or later

@Thundercat yeah it seems like that. She knew I'm a vfx artist and spend most of the day working on the computer and of course she said she was okay with that

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slowly she'd get very passive aggresive when I didn't immediately turn the pc off when she came home

I would even cut much of my usual time short to spend time with her

I think if we had went to the same college it would have been fine, but yeah they never end up being okay with things after the honeymoon phase

I told her straight up "this is what I do and nothing is gonna change it. ya dig?"


"YEAH OKAY I LOVE U"

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usually its the men who feel like shit after a breakup right?

anyways

no f

I am serene

Yeah there's something cruel about the way women approach relationships. They crush hard over an idealized image of the person they think they're head over heels lusting after. As the dude fails to live up to that impression and false hope, the bickering begins and picking fights and contempt builds until she strays

You really have to treat them borderline abusive

Lather rinse repeat

It even starts to get enjoyable after a while

And they love it

yeah thats the thing I told her how I am

but it seems she already had an idea of what she wanted but never told me

I figured out she was abused and has daddy iddues and low self esteem

Yeah she never straight out said it but she implied she thought I had cheated on her at some point, once that kind of thought gets into their head you can't really get it out. For awhile I thought she had cheated on me and was projecting it onto me so when things did end it wasn't on good terms because I got pretty pissed, but I had a childhood buddy who went to her school and while they didn't run in the same circles he said she never went out partying, he told me junior year he saw her at the bar for the first time ever lol. She really was a very small town girl

@DIO is a cool guy, a swell guy define treat them borderline abusive

feel like I have trouble straddling the line

Women no longer want to invest any work in a dude who needs some cleaning up. FME they want Mr Gatsby to materialize and take them by hand into the princess life where she can be worshipped for being perfect

hey darling, we're gonna go to the movies. You're gonna be ready by 5 right?

Dearling

Which hemisphere u in

darling*

ayo sean kingston

Heh I thought that was aussie speak

Or kiwi or tazzymaney w/e

idk

they don't even perceive it as princess behavior most of the time