Message from @Beemann

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2019-09-03 22:40:15 UTC  

good

2019-09-03 22:40:24 UTC  

common law is fine

2019-09-03 22:40:30 UTC  

The only thing that has changed since the higher marriage rate past to now is no-fault divorce and acceptance of extramarital sex.

2019-09-03 22:40:35 UTC  

It's really not as effective at all

2019-09-03 22:40:58 UTC  

Common law is a terrible way to define partnership

2019-09-03 22:41:01 UTC  

Marriage is a good thing. Too bad no fault divorce ruined it.

2019-09-03 22:41:12 UTC  

especially if it follows how Canada sees it

2019-09-03 22:41:16 UTC  

nah I just care about the possession after break up not the marriage itself

2019-09-03 22:41:16 UTC  

Socially speaking

2019-09-03 22:41:18 UTC  

gtg bois

2019-09-03 22:41:22 UTC  

work time

2019-09-03 22:41:25 UTC  

>live together for six months
>common law married now

2019-09-03 22:41:31 UTC  

Common law is "better than nothing"

2019-09-03 22:41:33 UTC  

>still have no-fault divorce

2019-09-03 22:41:42 UTC  

Statistically speaking

2019-09-03 22:41:43 UTC  

>men still get fucked either way

2019-09-03 22:41:46 UTC  

yeah

2019-09-03 22:41:54 UTC  

But nothing is literally scraping the bottom of the barrel

2019-09-03 22:42:05 UTC  

I thought we wanted higher standards than that

2019-09-03 22:42:51 UTC  

Tbh in Canada you're encouraged to not move in until you're sure about the other person

2019-09-03 22:43:14 UTC  

Because of common law partnerships

2019-09-03 22:43:35 UTC  

ye

2019-09-03 22:43:44 UTC  

which is fine as a counter measure I guess

2019-09-03 22:43:53 UTC  

still, a pretty damn low bar though

2019-09-03 22:45:33 UTC  

But yeah they're statistically more stable+better for kids than nothing, but worse than marriage proper

2019-09-03 22:45:54 UTC  

It's also kind of a creepy practice though

2019-09-03 22:47:00 UTC  

yeah

2019-09-03 22:47:25 UTC  

I just find it weird how you're supposedly defacto common law partnered without any significant action from either party

2019-09-03 22:47:51 UTC  

Like there should be something both parties of the partnership has to do in order to acknowledge the transition at least

2019-09-03 22:47:59 UTC  

Not just "lol you've been fucking for six months, done deal"

2019-09-03 22:48:40 UTC  

>fucking
You can just be roommates

2019-09-03 22:48:50 UTC  

wait what

2019-09-03 22:48:59 UTC  

Does that apply even to that?

2019-09-03 22:49:13 UTC  

So let's say... as an example, me and @Salacious Swanky Cat move into the same house in Canadialand

2019-09-03 22:49:24 UTC  

We live in the same place for six months

2019-09-03 22:49:32 UTC  

Not involved in any fashion

2019-09-03 22:49:40 UTC  

We're common law married even then O___o?

2019-09-03 22:50:23 UTC  

Oh it's province dependent

2019-09-03 22:50:40 UTC  

So it still happens?

2019-09-03 22:50:44 UTC  

Holy fuck that is frightening

2019-09-03 22:50:54 UTC  

I see your point about the move to encourage isolationism now