Abbey, I’ve only ever had one surgical tranny friend, but I’ve had a number of transvestite very good acquaintances

They were all fairly stable

That's great! We need more stable ones

The freaks have always given us a bad name

@everyonee I just looked at it, and sorry. I won't do anything with Gab when they stopped caring about free speech (banning stuff they didn't like).

They were fine. A bit OCD about laundry was the worst common habit

That's why I hate that Matt is getting harder on trans people. He used to say some nice things, like with Blaire

Instead we have trannies burning their house down, killing their dogs, and blaming it on "Not enough hate crimes in their community". Yeah thats a really good look, way to play the Optics game! 👌

Nutters going to nut?

Look, if you start off crazy, you going to end up somewhere dark.

If you start out somewhere dark, doesn’t mean you crazy

Exactly

And don't get me started on trenders

they make a a really small part of the population so anecdotal incidents are going to impact their... peers? more than broad groups like "Leftists" or "Asian people"

I don’t really care about percentages, unless I’m escaping a mob

@exeventien yeah, that's why I try to be, argh, visible

I want to give good counter examples

Rest of the time “just me and you baby👹”

When I'm not trolling @Shadows

Lol

I'm not a very good tranny. I don't even have an anime prp

Pfp

They're such a small group to begin with and the loud ones are so batshit insane... it really does get hard to group them all together that way

So don’t group

I don't blame you. When I was 14 I almost offd myself. I'd rather be dead than a tranny

But, I carried on. I held out as long as I could

Your speaking to me like if I dont do it, no one will. Im just stating its a problem at large with the perception and normalization of trans people, if everyone sees them as circus clowns.

That’s uncool abbey. If you didn’t misspeak truth (lie basically!) then I wonder what a good dad-figure might have done in your life.

I actually met a girl on this server who is trans but never wanted to admit it to her

My grandpa was my father figure. I adored that man

Ok, good

I miss him. He passed ybefore I transitioned. I'd hate for him to see me now

I hope he'd be proud of all the other things I've done

Men good, women good, neuter good. All can be bad also

@SpanishAbbey Do you have a construct of him in your head? (Bit of a deep and personal question)

In what way

As I often talk to “ghosts”

Interesting enough

Last week I had a dream with me in high school with my current body and trying to hide my figure from him. I think it's the first time I'd ever dreamed of him

That I can remember

I'm somewhat of a Jungian on dreams