then yeah

Its all about that positive reinforcement

I feel like the only thing that motivates my wife is her being angry with me lool

We can take a bit of the negative stuff, you see it in militaries all over.
but positive is more effective and universal. Ya got to find what she really wants, set a goal, and keep encouraging her. It's gotta be something special, and just outta reach right now, but attainable.

Right

And since its a long term goal, there's a higher chance it becomes a permanent lifestyle change

I gotta think about that

Ultimately it's up to them to sort it tho

Well yeah, but if they really want it, then they need to work for it. Otherwise it just dosent happen

I will have to think about what my wife actually wants haha. Idk if she even knows

Regardless I'm very happy with who I am

Which is what matters

No doubt king. Not making a comment on your convictions. You're not the one who has the issue here

For sure for sure🤙🤙

Good thoughts tho

Oh same. Like I'm fine with who I am, but I know I can improve. So why not improve?

Erry day erry day

Lift, run, find hobby, and involve yourself in something you're passionate about

Winning formula.

Oh also reading, read books.

Gotta be the modern renaissance man

Nothing more effective and attractive ^

Still kind of sucks that I can't have sex with someone I'm way hot for but oh well, that isn't everything in life.

As dark said, she need some space too. Like friends and a hobbie

Absolutely

But women dont tend to have many friends as men. Pure instintc

Fair

Another issue is when women get alone for too much time. They stay home all the time, no friends and get depressive, then they eat a fuckig lot.

She works full time

But it can be fixed

Oh

Didnt read that part, sorry

No worries king I didn't mention it. She has thyroid issues but also like I got hostes cakes for myself for cheat hours and she found em and at half the box like fuck dude really

Like I ate a single fucking ding ding cake in two weeks and she eats half the box in a day like fuck you complain about your weight yet you do this shit

Yikes

So idk, zero self control really, it's frustrating.

It is

She's not obese thankfully

Think thicker side of thicc

But still

Problem is when you say something, she'll brag "ur calling me fat? I have no duty to stay in shape for you and yadda yadda"