I get that vibe - and I would if I were him

She shoulda been on the same fucking page. . .

Yeh, usually when she "wakes me up" its a slight nudge then walking away, not even bothering me

oh so she's getting outta bed

cause last I heard

waking someone up means

*waking them up*

EXACTLY

just saw this - sorry King

but I feel ya

ok my cat started meowing

she never have done this before so im a bit confused

what should i do

Is she like meowing weird?

idk she never meowed before

Is she meowing alot? Or just hear and there?

a lot i think

but only when she is in the middle section of the flat

Hey guys is anyone here

I could use some advice regarding a girl

Aye

What's up?

So, she's a friend of mine from college. We've met just a month ago, went out a couple of times and had sex once

She told me quite clearly that she used to be an absolute thot (banged somewhere between 10-20 guys), but claims to have since seen the error of her ways and wants to become less... well, thotly

Ok

Less thot is good

Now, I'm quite sure that she wants a serious relationship with me, but I'm not really that interested

But I wanna reject her in a way that will not shatter her and will help her actually become a better person

Because in the past I've had a similar situation and after rejecting the girl she cranked her whorish ways up to 11 and ruined her life quite a bit

While I know that it isn't my responsibility to make a person better and force anyone to change their ways, I would like to be a positive influence on her life and help her if possible

I mean being blunt and honest is my go to. But perhaps be honest but a little softer. I hate the cliche "its not you, its me" line
I get what you're saying, but you can't really change how someone is gonna react. But I'd still shoot for somethingnthat isnt devastating like you said

Yeah I'll see her either tomorrow or in 2 days so I've been thinking about it quite a bit

Thanks for the advice

If you wanna run it by us in the next day or so, we'll still be around

It's good of you to not want to ruin her. At the end of the day though, she's responsible for her actions. If it's not something you see going far, tell her that in a clear manner, but also be polite.

"I like you, but I am not looking for something serious right now. I enjoy the time we spend together, but I'm not in the right head space to be considering settling down right now"

Something along those lines, maybe

No matter what happens, as long as you're polite and clear, you can rest easy knowing you did the right thing

> *fuck everyone who isn't **you***

yea but

> *help everyone who isn't you*

> ***when you can***