Message from @TipsyTactician
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That's something they need to learn
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Parent's tossing them on the street at 18 and teaching them to learn that the world is harsh, and the world doesn't give a fuck about your tiny insignificant life
That's what my parents did to me, I was homeless at 18 and now i'm 22, married and have built a life for myself in a way
Back then i was just the same as then, hated everything, and a big sad pity party.
I'm sorry to hear that happened to you, and I'm glad you made well for yourself, but on the subject of these little high school pricks, you gotta nip that shit in the bud
Why? because my real parents abandoned me and I couldn't let that go
But that's why you didn't become them
You had legitimate reasons to be angry
These fuckers have no reason
They're just little cunts who think the world owes them
That's true but I didn't have a reason to be angry?
Well sure you did, you just said it. Your parents abandoned you
And there's nothing wrong with being angry about that, it's how you control said anger
I understand your point, but a person have to be sane and have a good will at the first place
My parents abandoned me and my aunt and uncle took me in from 13 to 18 and provided me a better quality of life. I had nothing to be butthurt about but yet i was
My real biological parents abandoned me for drugs and shit, my OTHEr parents are my aunt and uncle.
Normal working class people making 80K+ a year type of thing
but y'know what stopped me from becoming these sad sacks of shit?
I was tossed out at 18 and was forced to figure it out.
This society is now built on coddling and nurturing, and as the saying goes, weak men make hard time, hard times make strong me, etc.
Idk, All i'm saying is I identify with these dudes in the idea of being a beta, and thinking the world owes them something. But i luckily got the reality check because I would have just shot myself without it.
/rant
My biological father beat my mother right in front of me, kidnapped me twice, let one of his family members sexually assault me, and then abandoned me. I'm still angry at him for all of it. But the difference is I recognize that my anger is legitimate, there is no solving it because he won't make amends, and I've managed to make a good life for myself. Just because you ended up with a nice life and better conditions after a traumatic incident doesn't mean you have no reason to be angry, it just means that you got the better end of a shit deal. Getting a good deal doesn't invalidate pain. How you deal with pain is what is important. If you blame the world for your problems like these clowns who shoot places up, that's a problem. But if you do like what you did and make a better life for yourself, then you've won in the end
And that's my fucking problem with these clowns who shoot places up
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Big mood ^
Woman describes 4 men in black shooting at elpaso not one incel
Some people need guides to help become better. Some boys never get those guides after trauma.
You don't need to toss the hell out of your child. Teach him how to deal with life problems. Life is harsh, of course it is, but teach'em that life has good aspects too
They want to blame everyone else for their personal issues and tragedies. Well guess what, bitch, if you think that taking your pain out on innocent people because your daddy was a dick or your mommy didn't love you enough, or you got raped by your uncle, suddenly, your pain IS invalid. Because you chose to end people's lives because of someone else's actions, rather than actually deal with your issues, accept that they happened, recognize that your pain is valid even if no one wants to acknowledge it, and fucking hustle to make a better life for yourself
Unfortunately not everyone have the early opportunitie to see through this aspect, but need to keep trying
The big thing is... don’t perpetuate the cycle of abuse. What was done wrong to you in your life shouldn’t be done to the family you create and the people around you.
Big fucking mood, Mayonnaise
Emotional scars don’t always go away, but you can balance them out with creating a positive home and raising children and loving a GOOD woman
Big mood ^
Also, holy fuck, did y'all just see that fucking video?
nope
I wanna see the security camera footage
Saucedaeronaut posted it