Message from @Wolfghast

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2016-10-31 11:37:05 UTC  

I see.

2016-10-31 11:38:12 UTC  

Kudos to you if you can make a ldr work without some form of visual aid etc

2016-10-31 11:39:29 UTC  

Yeah idk, I had a ldr for a while but without Skype or something similar I think that'd've gone south a long while earlier

2016-10-31 11:39:56 UTC  

ldr?

2016-10-31 11:40:30 UTC  

What does that mean?

2016-10-31 11:41:06 UTC  

long-distance relationship

2016-10-31 11:42:21 UTC  

Ah, well.

2016-10-31 11:43:07 UTC  

We use Discord, hell, that's how I found out about this app/site.

2016-10-31 11:44:14 UTC  

There's also DeviantArt (when it's not being total shit), Hangouts and Pokémon Showdown.

2016-10-31 11:50:46 UTC  

Yeah, I almost lost my gf because we made the switch to discord from skype. Changes a lot when you go from camming daily to not doing so for about a month

2016-10-31 11:51:46 UTC  

Can't you both just type?

2016-10-31 11:52:05 UTC  

How long have you been in your relationship?

2016-10-31 11:52:37 UTC  

I've known him for more then two years.

2016-10-31 11:52:49 UTC  

known or been together?

2016-10-31 11:53:30 UTC  

Well, here's the thing.

2016-10-31 11:55:06 UTC  

no emotion in typing

2016-10-31 11:55:24 UTC  

camming makes things easier

2016-10-31 11:55:24 UTC  

We started out as acquaintances and we grew closer as time went by.

2016-10-31 11:56:32 UTC  

Also, neither of us own any cameras for this and I'm not going to force him to buy one.

2016-10-31 11:56:52 UTC  

How long have you been together as a couple?

2016-10-31 11:56:58 UTC  

That question is very important tbh

2016-10-31 11:57:04 UTC  

Idk I've formed pretty close friendships with people I've never seen or spoken to over a mic

2016-10-31 11:57:12 UTC  

I've known my gf for 5 years

2016-10-31 11:57:17 UTC  

To say that there's no emotion in typing is a bit of an overstatement

2016-10-31 11:57:19 UTC  

Everything changed when we started dating

2016-10-31 11:57:42 UTC  

I went to see for a couple of weeks after 3 months had gone by

2016-10-31 11:57:50 UTC  

and then went to see her again 4-5 months down the line

2016-10-31 11:58:22 UTC  

We almost broke up entirely over the past month because of the distance

2016-10-31 11:58:49 UTC  

More or less a few months.

2016-10-31 11:59:13 UTC  

tbh if neither of us can get to live permanently with the other, then we'll probably break up.

2016-10-31 11:59:34 UTC  

First few months of a ldr arent too bad

2016-10-31 12:00:12 UTC  

And that's from over two years of talking and getting to know him.

2016-10-31 12:01:10 UTC  

So yeah, with me; it can take quite a while.

2016-10-31 12:02:17 UTC  

Again, its different when you're actually together

2016-10-31 12:02:27 UTC  

I knew my gf for a little over 3 years before we started dating

2016-10-31 12:02:34 UTC  

and we're at 1 yr and 7 months atm

2016-10-31 12:02:40 UTC  

almost 5 years of knowing her

2016-10-31 12:03:17 UTC  

Oh, I get that part alright.

2016-10-31 12:03:51 UTC  

But flights are not an option for me at the moment.

2016-10-31 12:04:25 UTC  

They're £500 for me