i am in 8th grade and i want to be popular

google it

don't we all

Google what?

how to be popular

keep up <:snowyDerp:266254387163168768>

Why?

I'm taken but due to a lot of shit and conflict in my last relationship I got more paranoid and scared in my current one I'm in which fucking sucks I get scared I'll mess up or something will go really wrong and it will be partly my fault I fucking hate feeling like that it's annoying as fuck 😦

im in basically the same spot hero

but my bf puts up with my shit and knows how to handle me so well

lots of understanding there.

I suggest practicing mindfulness

I had a crush on this one girl in school a year ago

if you're prone to paranoia

My best friend pushed me to ask her out

@Bunny. ✧*･ﾟ same here but I'm so scared that I'll loose him one day and everything will fall apart and @Wrds im stubborn as fuck when it comes to mindfulness rip

And I got rejected immediately.

be honest dude.

thats what i did

regular meditation helps

i have a crush right now and she sits behind me in class but i am too nervous to talk to her

All you kids

said every guy ever

100% open with them. tell them you past. tell them you will freak out and it isnt their fault.

And your relatively active social lives

and hopefully they understand

thats what i did

best thing i ever did <:snowyTea:293460451822665728>

@Bunny. ✧*･ﾟ I'm glad to know I'm not the only one that feels this way when it comes to a relationship so thank you for that I appreciate it a lot

you're never the only one

'νícтσяíα#6570 he knows a lot about my past trust me even a lot of my last relationship but even then I freak out

you're most welcome

@NikoalaKuma I'm pretty scared about telling people how I feel about them as well.

hopefully he is just understanding

making it clear it isn't him is the biggest thing.

its YOUR hang up. own it.

thats what i did.

He is understanding it's just my own damn aniexty is all

yeah being honest with oneself is important

Yeah I've learnt that the hard way when I was lying to myself thinking my ex wasn't emotionally abusive when he was and im not usually one to lie to others I usually tell the truth

I prefer to just purge emotion from my conscious, I try to not get close to anyone.