Message from @Dramis Covetous

Discord ID: 303748001606795265


2017-04-18 04:21:28 UTC  

Then once it is done you get a puppy (preferably a papillon, those lil bastards can live up to 15 years) then you teach them step by step how to take care of it and hold their hand for a couple weeks

2017-04-18 04:21:46 UTC  

then let them take care of it from then on

2017-04-18 04:22:01 UTC  

let them take it for supervised walks

2017-04-18 04:22:03 UTC  

I have a little cousin, she's ten now or something. I never tell her that her drawings are good, but I tell her ‘this drawing is better than the last one, keep it up’ if it's really better. I hope this'll help her learn to be critical.

2017-04-18 04:22:20 UTC  

yes it will pheliska

2017-04-18 04:22:25 UTC  

that will help them

2017-04-18 04:22:39 UTC  

it gives positive reinforcement while also gently pushing them onwards

2017-04-18 04:22:42 UTC  

try and hide criticisms in praise so they take it to heart, but only if they're relatively young

2017-04-18 04:23:04 UTC  

well even as they grow up

2017-04-18 04:23:16 UTC  

As a role model your opinion matters more than most

2017-04-18 04:24:03 UTC  

giving an outright negative opinion will deter them from doing what they did or what they drew

2017-04-18 04:24:08 UTC  

explain preferences

2017-04-18 04:24:14 UTC  

use music as an example

2017-04-18 04:24:52 UTC  

help them understand that failure is not the end but a chance to find flaws and improve

2017-04-18 04:24:57 UTC  

but do not stop there

2017-04-18 04:25:02 UTC  

help them find their flaws

2017-04-18 04:25:16 UTC  

help them learn how to improve and avoid making those same flaws

2017-04-18 04:25:24 UTC  

eventually they'll pick up on it and grow

2017-04-18 04:25:48 UTC  

should also teach them about motivatioin and how to keep it, almost as important as all that

2017-04-18 04:26:05 UTC  

not as important as teaching them to grow

2017-04-18 04:26:06 UTC  

motivation is a fickle mistress for many authors and artists

2017-04-18 04:26:14 UTC  

why are we giving parenting advice

2017-04-18 04:27:47 UTC  

Because we are decent human beings who want children to grow up to be functional members of society and not coddled cellar dwellers tweeting out how the patriarchy is ruining the world and the government is oppressing women and protecting rapists

2017-04-18 04:28:19 UTC  

They need to be functional cellar dwellers at the very least

2017-04-18 04:28:51 UTC  

playing wholesome games like GTA 5 and The Witcher 3

2017-04-18 04:28:52 UTC  

if you keep up your eloquent explanations im gonna grow a full chub, son

2017-04-18 04:29:16 UTC  

wholesome games like *Hotline Miami and OFF

2017-04-18 04:29:29 UTC  

What is OFF?

2017-04-18 04:29:32 UTC  

WHAT

2017-04-18 04:29:37 UTC  

DUDE

2017-04-18 04:30:06 UTC  

What?

2017-04-18 04:30:10 UTC  
2017-04-18 04:30:15 UTC  

its an amazing game

2017-04-18 04:30:37 UTC  

Fuck, it's so cold here, that I had to go to the kitchen and warm up near the stove.

2017-04-18 04:30:44 UTC  

the artist behind the game, mortis ghost, is one of the few people who helped me realize i wanted to be an animator

2017-04-18 04:30:58 UTC  

animator?

2017-04-18 04:31:18 UTC  

where are you pheliksa

2017-04-18 04:31:21 UTC  

Whats reps dog called?

2017-04-18 04:31:23 UTC  

on the world map I mean

2017-04-18 04:31:25 UTC  

Mala?

2017-04-18 04:31:34 UTC  

Sarah?