Message from @Jatsko
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Lmao
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Treating all mental disorders as just being a variance is pretty dangerous
.. i don’t think anyone irl is
but anyway
I'm not qualified to talk about most of this stuff, just qualified to make dumb jokes about it simply through existing
Omg somebody’s got mortal kombat
well theres a reason why girls who tend to have a more active sex life and possibly do some questionable things created the sort of "stereotype" of girl with daddy issues, because mental trauma can push people towards unhealthy behaviour and coping mechanisms...but addressing it as mentally sound doesnt seem like the right wording and extending to that point also doesnt seem right
I cant think of how to phrase what i want to say properly rn, but i think yall get what I mean
I'm not qualified either but gee, it makes me happy when I find evidence that can confirm my biases
"mental trauma can push people towards unhealthy behaviour and coping mechanisms" this seems reasonable
Is having lots of sex unhealthy though
well yeah... that’s a fact
on what jatsko said*
yeah, but I use can because not necessarily everyone drifts to that behaviour
sorry, messages sending late
Why do you think promiscuity is unhealthy?
"addressing it as mentally sound doesnt seem like the right wording and extending to that point also doesnt seem right"
I don't see why "mentally sound" has to be a problem term. Trauma is affecting something, and I would say it's megatively affecting the otherwise (relatively) sound state your mind would have.
its not having lots of sex, its the relationship implied and the reasons behind
idk when I hear "not mentally sound" I've always heard it with very negative connotations, so maybe its just me and it was out of place.
unless you mean they're using it as a pejorative or something
Personally, I don't see *why* someone who is able to maintain a healthy, intimate relationship would instead engage in sex with many different people just for quick satisfaction
i mean very negative to the extreme, and usually associated with people who are deemed crazy
Unless you're a hedonistic bastard, I guess
Even then, I think having a romantic bond is more pleasurable than being a slut. So I don't really get it
For myself, I would only imagine having casual sex with someone as a resort because I'm unable to find a romantic other, which causes a feeling of social alienation, and that causes a thought of gaining social power by means of sex
yeah... I know someone who acted this way and has had a long string of relationships where due to abandonnement issues led to them really just seeking the temporary attention and validation because of what was lacking during their childhood. they werent really treating the people they dated all that great and tended to lie about where they were, what they were doing, eventually started cheating, and i feel like that does relate to deviant behaviour due to a mental state
I think that having a long string of sexual relations comes more from trying to replace a lack of an emotional bond that was seeked but not attained, and that was then replaced with physical relations with various people. Its not so much a matter of not being able to have an emotional bond or preferring to have a physical, but trying to replace something that isnt there otherwise, at least for the circumstances I'm thinking of
Yeah. Which makes me afraid because I was emotionally isolated as a child, most relationships I saw between adults weren't that good, my parents divorced when I was about 12, don't know if I need to go on
ah
What mentally I want and my capacity for feeling are not in the same, and at times contradict each other
Well I will be heading off to bed, Goodnight all of you wonderful people.
Nighty night
gnight voodoo chan
Don't let the clowns bite
I can't imagine myself being promiscuous, nor do I want to, but I've questioned my capacity for romantic feelings lately
Good night
Does anyone want to hear a poem before I leave?
ah okay
and sure