Message from @Elliot

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2019-07-25 05:23:41 UTC  

that's... weird

2019-07-25 05:23:54 UTC  

Why is Romantic relationships in there for censorship

2019-07-25 05:23:57 UTC  

I was poking at a jelly fish today without realizing

2019-07-25 05:24:02 UTC  

gotta protect the children

2019-07-25 05:24:11 UTC  

Kids can't know about love

2019-07-25 05:24:18 UTC  

Oh no they can't see what they see **daily**

2019-07-25 05:24:22 UTC  

they can't know their parents are even romantically involved

2019-07-25 05:24:41 UTC  

They can't even watch almost all TV shows anymore

2019-07-25 05:24:46 UTC  

Not even kids shows

2019-07-25 05:25:01 UTC  

@Cora ☽ I mean some kids don't I wasn't well introduced into romance until 7th grade it's something picked up on from parents

2019-07-25 05:25:18 UTC  

Hmmm

2019-07-25 05:25:20 UTC  

Well then

2019-07-25 05:25:38 UTC  

Thing is though several videos on youtube are about healthy and unhealthy relationships

2019-07-25 05:25:40 UTC  

They're very, very protected or didn't grow up in a very good home

2019-07-25 05:25:51 UTC  

Lol we just gave my 5 year old nephew the birds and bees talk

2019-07-25 05:26:01 UTC  

He insisted his mom has balls

2019-07-25 05:26:07 UTC  

I've known about that stuff since 5 so, yeah

2019-07-25 05:26:16 UTC  

Oh my god

2019-07-25 05:26:17 UTC  

My mom has been very open about things like that

2019-07-25 05:26:28 UTC  

Yeah we saw no need to hold back

2019-07-25 05:26:30 UTC  

Yeah I mean I grew up knowing nothing because my only exposure was my parents and youtube

2019-07-25 05:26:36 UTC  

He thought we were lying though lol

2019-07-25 05:26:36 UTC  

Like literally youtube gave me the talk

2019-07-25 05:26:52 UTC  

I wake up to this. Interesting

2019-07-25 05:26:57 UTC  

Like, if my kid asks and I feel they're old enough I'll explain it

2019-07-25 05:27:09 UTC  

Yeah

2019-07-25 05:27:22 UTC  

And by that I mean if they're 5 and up I'll explain it and answer their questions

2019-07-25 05:27:45 UTC  

Like I'll be open to allow good communication but I will have rules and stuff like that

2019-07-25 05:27:49 UTC  

I'll give my kid the talk when they're around 7 or 8 probably but if they ask questions I'll explain and if I feel they're ready sooner I will

2019-07-25 05:28:04 UTC  

Yeah, that's what I'll do too

2019-07-25 05:28:10 UTC  

tbh my whole parenting plan is don't be my parents because like y'know they kinda suck

2019-07-25 05:28:16 UTC  

It's only fair for them to know if they're curious

2019-07-25 05:28:19 UTC  

He was confused so w.e

2019-07-25 05:28:25 UTC  

Hes also smart for his age though

2019-07-25 05:28:27 UTC  

I don't want to be as overly protective as my step dad

2019-07-25 05:28:30 UTC  

Yeah

2019-07-25 05:28:36 UTC  

But I want to still be some form of protective

2019-07-25 05:28:57 UTC  

Like I'll allow them to hang out with friends and stuff

2019-07-25 05:29:14 UTC  

I don't want to be as protective as my mom cause that caused me to learn to lie to do shit but I don't want to be as not protective as my dad who let that stuff happen so I got put into some bad situations

2019-07-25 05:29:24 UTC  

But I'll message them occasionally to make sure everything's alright and to make sure they're doing Okay

2019-07-25 05:29:27 UTC  

And things like that