Message from @Farunel
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Like I'll be open to allow good communication but I will have rules and stuff like that
I'll give my kid the talk when they're around 7 or 8 probably but if they ask questions I'll explain and if I feel they're ready sooner I will
Yeah, that's what I'll do too
tbh my whole parenting plan is don't be my parents because like y'know they kinda suck
It's only fair for them to know if they're curious
He was confused so w.e
Hes also smart for his age though
I don't want to be as overly protective as my step dad
Yeah
But I want to still be some form of protective
Like I'll allow them to hang out with friends and stuff
I don't want to be as protective as my mom cause that caused me to learn to lie to do shit but I don't want to be as not protective as my dad who let that stuff happen so I got put into some bad situations
But I'll message them occasionally to make sure everything's alright and to make sure they're doing Okay
And things like that
I won't stop them from hanging out with their friends in a public setting when they're teens
Yeah that's reasonable
Or even at their friends house when I know an adult is gonna be there
Yeah
And I'll make sure my kid/s know it's Okay if they need me to pick them up or something
Like I'll be there
But the woman is kinda ahead of her time
Shes almost 50
My mom would let me hang out with friends and stuff
It's my step dad that stops it the majority of the time
My mom made a deal with me since I have aspies when I was in high school
Like he wouldn't even let me go to pride at the end of the year last year because it was a public event and he didn't want me to go
Skip as many days as I need as long as my grades are b and a
I got straight a
But this year I will save money and I will buy tickets for me & my mother to go
And if I'm very sick I will skip school
But most times I don't because I actually like learning
Like I was devastated when I had pneumonia and couldn't go to school
My mom didnt really mind as long as she knew where I was
I'm one of the weird kinds who like learning
But I have to say this, I only am really interested if it's something I enjoy (math is the only one I don't find enjoyable)
same here but with polotics haha
politics
Yeah
<:lookinsexydonny:279040537204359168> these emojis are pretty 👌
I like school