Message from @ResolvingParadox13
Discord ID: 648086091873910789
So what you're saying is your on tinder, a well known hook up app, and you're saying the women there aren't good?
Imagine my shock.
Lol
Fair point made
Tinder is trash, bitches want cash
I do take a look sometimes to remind myself of the current state.
NY MGTOW need to GTFO
I wasn't sure if that was real
But holy shit
I'm ready for the boogaloo.
Can i even call myself mgtow or redpilled if I still believe in marriage and dating?
Being Christian you can't just be a hypocrite and start banging hoes so if i want to enjoy sex it's gotta be that way and im fine with that. Its spared me so much hardship even if iv taken a lot of crap for being a virgin.
Iv been on mgtow since 2015,
But since iv never had a relationship I feel this blue pill sense in me, yea date sure but to be a simp is too much can you not date and not be 1.
Then again why date at all?
What drives that?
Maybe its social preassure
Maybe its internal things i seek like validation or an ego boost and on that note my red pill brain tells me my validation, ego boost, ECT should come from me so you transcend the social pressures then its just why do it at all?
If I'm not a ,,marketable,, male ready for ,mate selection, then dating for the purpose of marriage has no relevance now.
But can you be red pulled with that belief system?
You may have powerful reproductive instincts driving you towards women.
Just a thought
Iv heard a lot of arguing on the manosohere/ mgtow community about purple pill guys and the stereotype that mgtow never date or have serious romantic relationships.
And that just Dosn t seem the case at all.
https://youtu.be/yLJSv9XTMUI for all my married dudes out there
@stevefromwork hermit has/had? a GF
I don't think mgtow are necessarily always single. There are plenty of guys who pump and dump or have a GF just because they want to. It's just that those relationships are handled with an understanding of the truth... You enjoy your GF's company while it lasts and avoid investing yourself so much that you are permanently damaged after the fact. This is also why mgtow isn't about hating women either. That's like hating water for obeying the laws of gravity or fluid mechanics.
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So I mean yeah, @stevefromwork, you can have your relationships with women but red pill truths will always haunt you. You've stepped out of the matrix and there's no going back.
I felt hate, hate for women, a system that entitled them and ran through men.
Then i learned of female nature and I'm still just taking it all in. So yes you can't rationally hate women.
I dub female nature a ,,minefield of mind f==ks,,
Once your awake your can never try let rest again. Its hurt and i had a few times i just wanted to go back to sleep, thinking I'd be happy in blind blissful ignorance but id be a slave and not be free. A man blind man in chains.
It really shouldn't be too much of a surprise if you look at it analytically.I mean yes, society has lied to you for your whole life, but in terms of nature and how humanity survived up until now, everything makes perfect sense. @stevefromwork
You can see these patterns throughout the animal kingdom so yeah
Nature doesn't give a shit about how you feel or how you conceptualize your ideals of love, @stevefromwork.
1 thing that bothers me, is the relationship power struggle. You see im having to rewire my whole brain and really take this stuff in
Survival is the top priority when it comes to human instincts.
Coupled with natural selection
On 1 hand the clown world says its a ,,partnership,,
Im struggling with the perception of masculinity. What women really need and want is for men to be men. To lead, be assertive, take charge all that. Not an equal partnership.
But NO ONE and NOTHING ever taught me to be or do that. It ALL taught me to be a cuck and enslave myself to an idea of a world that no longer exists and the whole thing is really mind f==king me rn the whole rewiring.
Ah man. Been there done that
But you came out the other end.
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A better man
@stevefromwork yeah... Not as good as I'd like to be yet
A rather presumptuous thing to say
I can't post the pic, but it was of a guy saying.
At 30 I thot my life was over.
At 43 i was in the best shape ever
At 44 i wrote my 1st book.
Point is. Men age like fine wine
And women age like milk.
There is no time limit and that perceived time limit has REALLY hit me,
Time limit?
To get married before 30 and have your sh t together thay kind of thing