Greetings gents out here working listening to hermit thought I'd join the discord

Can't sent links to YouTube videos?

NC mgtow mirror has a 4 part series on understanding women, and several extras after it really explained female nature and made it sink in.

Got a call from my friend im cali.

He s in the Santa Clara jail.
Says there are 0 programs in place to help inmates get the help they need. That in there your on your own and society Dosnt gives f about you, just throws my friend away at 21 yrs old.

Called the chaplain,
A board
The mayor ECT guy told me the programs come through the court to the jail.


Disgusted how men can be thrown away like that.

Can i even call myself mgtow or redpilled if I still believe in marriage and dating?

Being Christian you can't just be a hypocrite and start banging hoes so if i want to enjoy sex it's gotta be that way and im fine with that. Its spared me so much hardship even if iv taken a lot of crap for being a virgin.

Iv been on mgtow since 2015,
But since iv never had a relationship I feel this blue pill sense in me, yea date sure but to be a simp is too much can you not date and not be 1.

Then again why date at all?
What drives that?
Maybe its social preassure
Maybe its internal things i seek like validation or an ego boost and on that note my red pill brain tells me my validation, ego boost, ECT should come from me so you transcend the social pressures then its just why do it at all?

If I'm not a ,,marketable,, male ready for ,mate selection, then dating for the purpose of marriage has no relevance now.


But can you be red pulled with that belief system?

Iv heard a lot of arguing on the manosohere/ mgtow community about purple pill guys and the stereotype that mgtow never date or have serious romantic relationships.

And that just Dosn t seem the case at all.

I felt hate, hate for women, a system that entitled them and ran through men.

Then i learned of female nature and I'm still just taking it all in. So yes you can't rationally hate women.

I dub female nature a ,,minefield of mind f==ks,,

Once your awake your can never try let rest again. Its hurt and i had a few times i just wanted to go back to sleep, thinking I'd be happy in blind blissful ignorance but id be a slave and not be free. A man blind man in chains.

1 thing that bothers me, is the relationship power struggle. You see im having to rewire my whole brain and really take this stuff in

On 1 hand the clown world says its a ,,partnership,,

Im struggling with the perception of masculinity. What women really need and want is for men to be men. To lead, be assertive, take charge all that. Not an equal partnership.

But NO ONE and NOTHING ever taught me to be or do that. It ALL taught me to be a cuck and enslave myself to an idea of a world that no longer exists and the whole thing is really mind f==king me rn the whole rewiring.

But you came out the other end.

A better man

I can't post the pic, but it was of a guy saying.

At 30 I thot my life was over.
At 43 i was in the best shape ever
At 44 i wrote my 1st book.

Point is. Men age like fine wine
And women age like milk.

There is no time limit and that perceived time limit has REALLY hit me,

To get married before 30 and have your sh t together thay kind of thing

Past few years iv had a lot of negative emotions and struggled with how I see myself. There was nothing out there that built s positive image men, or built me up except from the mgtow community which grows men to be their best selves.

I think hermit said once men try to fit this mold or image society never truely had for them.

@ResolvingParadox13 good chatting,

Sorry😂 i think as I go sometimes.