No, I would not say it cause I usually dont care

You don't care to do what?

I dont care enough to tell people my opinion on a thing that isnt particulary relevant to me

On the other hand, if my intern does a good job learning there's 2 things going on here.
1. I do good job teaching
2. He does good job learning

I dont feel I can claim pride for his ability to learn, only to my ability to teach

It's funny to me cause

Most people, whether they believe to be partly responsible for someone's success or not, when they don't say that out loud, it's because they know it's just a stupid thing to say and it can hurt the relationship

That's why they don't say it, because they don't wanna take away from that person's emotional high

Which is kind of a selfless act of course, parents do this all the time

Selflessness is immoral

It's not selfless

It's a selfless act, it's not "being selfless"

It's a kind of socially evolved behavior

We learn this

Because the backlash from deviating from it causes us harm, for example lost friends

So it's actually selfish in a way

But also selfless

Things can be both

It's a tradeoff basically

That's what societies do

I dont operate like that. WHen I have interns, which I do a lot, I help them understand, give them tasks and then tell them clearly what mistakes were made

Yeah but you don't steal their thunder

I dont get what you mean by that

When they feel successful, you let them have their moment, and you don't steal it for yourself, by saying something stupid like "I did that, I taught you, I'm awesome"

But I didnt do that

Unless you say it jokingly perhaps

I just helped them understand and they did something good

sometimes they do better than I do

Yes that's my point, you're acting selflessly in that moment, because acting selflessly ends up being the better option for you

no, I am not acting selflessly

I am helping them cause it will benefit me in the long run

and I am payed for helping them

............ I'm talking about you not stealing their thunder

there's some disconnect here my friend

Narcissists do that all the time, they take other people's credit and think they can just do that with no repercussions

I take no one's credit, I jst teach people how to do shit

If you were a narcissist, i.e. completely selfish, you'd steal people's thunder for a moment of glory

Yes that's my point, you're not a narcissist, you're not selfish

I am selfish

in fact I strive to be

Then you're intelligently selfish