Blaming yourself is taking responsibility in a way

because at that age, you could no longer 'work off' the emotion phsycially

and that stress/emotion has no where to go

Imao that's what I do now either yell or work way fucking harder

excactly

blaming one's self is what a person that beleives in responsibility does

they don't want to externalize their problems

they know they can't display them openly

those that don't beleive in responisbility, blame others

That's how I feel most of the time

i feel ya; think everyone does these days given the dynamic

There is always the idea that its possible to make it work if I tried way harder or something like that even if it realistically like that

used to be the very thing that men realized a good woman could provide them that they couldn't do themselves

Emotional support

or?

yup; a space to let one's guard down

GodManAnimalEmperorToday at 1:31 AM
exactly
it's why more and more males are going postal or killing themselves

going postal?

without it being used against them

Nothing motivates a man like a women, imao

my mother's and grandmother's generation could tell what men were feeling before the men know

they could spot someone ready to snap a mile away

women's intuition

today, women are too pre-occupied trying to be inadequate men

lol

Women nowdays don't seem to understand men at all

Circle back to the crying and not understanding that men won't get sympathy like they do thing

exactly

Its wack

Speaking of going postal https://store.steampowered.com/app/707030/POSTAL_4_No_Regerts/?snr=1_7_15__13

beyond wack; and a particular puzzle i often struggle with regarding options to reestablish balance

Slowly

i remember how my grandparents supported each other; when they fought and how they backed each other's play

anymore, i don't even see that in my own generation

say nothing for those that are younger

it's why gender roles are important

gender roles are like 'responisbilities of a player on a team'

it just creates dysfunction

anyone who learns how to play first base very well will automatically be able to read the ideal second basemen

Vee being incompetent again.

he'll know where he should be without having to be asked or having to think about it