like idk man I suddenly feel concerend for you. I don't think it's a life or death thing but man it really sounds like your anxieties about women etc are preventing you from leading a full life

what is a full life

though

if you could define that for me

i'd love to hear it

one where you allow yourself to be open to having a meaningful and intimate relationship with another human being

could be a start

yeah, i have had things like that before

@MoistBread what?? that's such a weird concept but maybe that's true. I just don't get chastity belts

Have you been hurt pretty bad in the past by a Las ?

nope, primarily my bad enounters have been with men

@baiyn why don't you buy it?

My ryhme is on point

i had a psychopathic friend in school who used to torment me quite a lot

that wasn't fun

but i've addressed the problem

I just think you should at least try therapy, try talking about these things with a professional. I don't mean to hammer it but man anxiety is a bitch and it sounds like it's taken a hold over certain aspects of your life

i'm on 200mg of sertraline a day

Well I suppose we can get into the morning pillow talk about deep stuff I don't mind. We're human and I don't mind lending an ear

and i do take it;

pills does not equal therapy

well it can but like pills don't really tend to do much in my experience

the thing about personality disorders

it's really rare for someone's mental problems to just truly be chemical

is that they aren't exactly solvable problems

have you been diagnosed with a PD?

ie, if you're treating someone with npd you're not going to make them not a narcissist

you can make them less of a cunt

exactly treatment on personality disorders is centered around coping and dealing with the symptoms

yeah it's fake news

it's papering over the cracks

but it does work sometimes I don't think therapy is a complete sham although a lot of psychology is bullshit

It's worth trying tho

i'm not denying that therapy has its uses

i just believe that me avoiding people has it's uses

you don't think it could help you? I mean man you are literally saying you never want to be in a relationship with a woman and that you avoid people

that's not healthy

help in what way

do you mean normify?

what is norm?

"norm" to me is the behaviors and thoughts that do not interrupt you leading a happy and productive life