thank you for your kindness

it should make sense that i question axioms

in case they are wrong

tbh I think anyone on psychoative medication for the purpose of aiding them with mental health problems should inherently also be in therapy

good luck getting avoidant people to therapy 😛

but yeah dude like damn some of the things you said really resonated with me because I would say the same kind of shit and still do when I'm really down but obviously for me it's with guys not women rofl. but YEAH I mean I've said it a million times but it's seriously worth at least considering and challenging yourself on the idea of the healthiness and benefits of avoiding relationships

well i have weighed the benefits and negatives and found them wholly unsatisfactory to pursue

and really being objective and asking "am I avoiding relationships because that is what I genuinely want, or am I avoiding them because I am anxious

a warm hole cannot be that enticing

you probably find it unsatisfactory because it makes you uncomfortable and anxious

it's the person and you know that

holy shit you guys are still talking about this

lol we are

no, i'm not saying that

everyone left and it's just been us to having a heart to heart

two

i'm saying that it is not worth the financial investment when the legal system will break my spine for doing so

when a word of the woman is worth 10x of the man

in either civil or criminal court

i think i will pass on warm holes until some sanity has been restored

just saying tho warm hole is p. good

i bet it is

I think viewing relationships as a financial investment is a sign that you are depersonalizing them in order to aide your anxiety in helping you to avoid the vulnerability inherent with opening yourself up to another human being in an intimate way

i bet it's like sitting down on the comfiest couch

and just being swallowed up in plush

attached to an annoying brain tho, lol,

i'm just afraid that i wouldn't sit on the couch if someone was going to murder me afterwards

or take all of my money

or stop me from seeing my kids

or throw me in prison

so i'll pass on the couch

you're talking in very apocalyptic terms which is again a HALLMARK, TEXT BOOK indication that your anxiety is in control of your faculties when it comes to this topic

i'm simply stating the reasonable truth

You're not though

well okay, both of my brothers can not see their children

they will never see their children

they write letters for every birthday and christmas

and cry sometimes

i'll pass;

i'll pass. m8

it ain't an unreasonable anxiety