exactly; fight like a female

keep everthing inside rather than directing it at the source

Spread rumours expose what someone said about someone else

It is SO FUCKING FAGGOTY

which is FAR more healthy the way males do it

Yeah because after a fight its over less animosity

how many boys have an argument, throw punches and 10 min later are playing games like it never happpend?

The underlying goal to the before mentioned is to attack someones social standing rather then them directly

women? they can seee the girl that wronged them 25 yrs later and try to run her down with their damn car

And it makes sense why when you look at what they do to each other

Ya, I'm of the mind, if you aint got nothing nice to say about the new guy, or talking about how to get him on par with the rest of us, you ain't a productive colleague.

holding it in for too long is destructive

that's what men are SUPPOSED to do, redxl

first, build confidence through competence and teach them how to build and manage respect

shitting on someone else to avoid being shitting on yourself is pretty pathetic tbh

because they will take those tools and enforce them later

keeping their own fights fair

males challenged each other to make each other better

Most kids aren't actually conscious of there being a group in the first place, its all intuitive

Think more positive behaviour like that might be easier

and once the insecurity is gone is the only way brotherhood can prosper

Men derive their value through team work, we are highly efficient with this. Emasculation is a serious threat to this.

If it is recognised consciously there is a explicit group

Men competition - women cooperation

well, some just don't respond to positive reienforcement

it requires hitting a wall

Bullying serves a purpose

absolutely

To tell you are a loser and need to change to fit in

Meet basic social standards nigga

NOTHING can teach the lesson that bully gets when that victim finally has enough and publically humilates him

If you fight your bully and lose you still get massive respect

No reason not to do it

exactly

and that respect deters the bully

That lesson is looong lost now

They'll stop bullying you

They are after someone who won't push back

because the bully doesn't just have to worry about you, but any of the others that might not approve of his antics

And a lot of fathers aren't teaching their boys this lesson

there are SO many lessons that i know it took some of us time and pain to learn.. but... at least WE had a model