first, build confidence through competence and teach them how to build and manage respect
shitting on someone else to avoid being shitting on yourself is pretty pathetic tbh
because they will take those tools and enforce them later
keeping their own fights fair
males challenged each other to make each other better
Most kids aren't actually conscious of there being a group in the first place, its all intuitive
Think more positive behaviour like that might be easier
and once the insecurity is gone is the only way brotherhood can prosper
Men derive their value through team work, we are highly efficient with this. Emasculation is a serious threat to this.
If it is recognised consciously there is a explicit group
Men competition - women cooperation
well, some just don't respond to positive reienforcement
it requires hitting a wall
Bullying serves a purpose
absolutely
To tell you are a loser and need to change to fit in
Meet basic social standards nigga
NOTHING can teach the lesson that bully gets when that victim finally has enough and publically humilates him
If you fight your bully and lose you still get massive respect
No reason not to do it
exactly
and that respect deters the bully
That lesson is looong lost now
They'll stop bullying you
They are after someone who won't push back
because the bully doesn't just have to worry about you, but any of the others that might not approve of his antics
And a lot of fathers aren't teaching their boys this lesson
there are SO many lessons that i know it took some of us time and pain to learn.. but... at least WE had a model
So now, there are over corrections, like using guns
these kids?
Its the same reason why if someone tries to fight you and you just capitulate and say you won't fight they won't bash you either
shutter
Single mother parenting
what a fucking joke
Yes I'm so going to tell my kids to just punch their bully the moment he talks the first bit of shit imao
school shootings are equivalent to cat-fights
School shootings are what happens without emotional outlet or closure
Fighting is closure
and it REALLY burns me up to see women continually FAIL to recognize the stress they put on boys/men and when they FINALLY snap, callously go, "he had mental illness"
fuck you
It doesn't work for women either tbh
