Like, even just normal civil service should do wonders with community/nationality building. Help physically build new community infrastructure, housing, teach or feed foster/impoverished children

Yeah

For all the leftists love to posture about "doing good", most of them don't even volunteer

Getting in contact with the existing community and its ways, and giving them some of your time and other investment

I mean how are we supposed to even argue that we live in a society if we DON'T do that

The most distant strangers are nobodies to us these days

So they come up with an imagined society in their minds

Right

More easily shaped

Commies are also hugely in favor of nursery school

Particularly because removing the children from the parents is good for their cause

I'm not even lying, they admitted that

Society is circles within circles

Each circle supposed to be stronger than the next

The self; the family; the friends and relatives; the town; the nation; the world

Yeah. That's basic home economics

A good nation has good home economics

Right

They want to remove the nation from the picture

No nations, no borders

It's from the smallest facet of society do u then build a productive nation

And how can they do that best, well by removing the closest circles first

The self first, then the family, etc.

Therefore no identity

No nuclear family

No family time

I always found it odd how disjointed western families can be.

Yes I agree there

I think maybe I crave strong inner circles because they were so disjointed in my own life

My mother on the other hand had too strong of a family circle and resented it

Once you reach 16 or 18 many don't care about their family anymore. One of the reasons chinese/koreans are so strong, not only IQ-wise but also through valuing family ties.

In my mom's house when she was young, there was an iron rule from her father

If he said something it was law

Many of us non-westerns still value our grandparents and keep them near us if possible

My mom had huge fights with her parents when she wanted to escape that and planned to move to Austria

Especially parents. To repay them and also they help rear our own kids

And again when she wanted to marry my dad in Vienna

They drove her away

By clinging to her

Yeah of course that's too much

Too strict and you create resentment